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NeoGlowRatz

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3 years ago

maybe some npd positivity or rescources on how someone with npd can recover?

hey! i hope you're well <3

here are some articles i found:

narcissism self help website

how to stop being a narcissist

14 tips on how to not be a narcissist

how to stop being a narcissist: 8 key steps

yes, narcissists can change (here's how)

what it's like to be a diagnosed narcissist

how to stop being a narcissist according to 11 experts

the arduous work of treating narcissism: a therapist's guide

self-help for narcissists

7 steps to changing your narcissistic responses

10 stages in the treatment of narcissistic disorders

how to treat narcissistic personality disorder

3 strategies for recovering narcissists

9 types of entitlement tendencies and how to overcome them

i do want to say that some of these articles have negative language. to be honest i don't know all that much about npd specifically, so i did a lot of research. i was so shocked at how little i could find, and how much is straight up vilifying or about victims of narcissistic abuse and not people with npd. im sure you know this already, but im still horrified. i will be making an effort to post more npd positivity, as recovering is possible and there should be a lot of it.

also, knowing that you are struggling with a personality disorder and wanting to improve is a great first step. im proud of you!

you are worthy of recovery, and you deserve it. i promise

love, emma <3

3 years ago

so fun fact about us

we write fanfics on ao3 about our introject’s sources 😎

should we show them off on here?


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3 years ago
Pirate Dance Party!!
Pirate Dance Party!!
Pirate Dance Party!!
Pirate Dance Party!!

pirate dance party!!

3 years ago
He's Just Some Guy Leave Him Alone !!

he's just some guy leave him alone !!

3 years ago

If only there was a cute person to find bones and adventure with me 👉👈

3 years ago

“Don’t be afraid to love again. Not everyone is like your ex.”

— Unknown

3 years ago

feel free to ignore this

im just having a bad morning pain wise

i realized that i cant actually ever have a normal life anymore. i woke up after playing skee ball at an arcade with a pulled muscle in my shoulder that hurts so much i cant move it. and i made the realization that because of my chronic pain i can never go out and just live my life. i cant even play my instrument or draw without some part of me hurting and it just really sucks. like how am i supposed to make myself feel better when i cant do any of the things to make myself feel better because it hurts too much.


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3 years ago

I just saw some people on TikTok saying that Steven don’t have a hard life …

Excuse me?! Are we watching the same show or …? I’m not saying he is the most tragic character but stop downplaying what he is going through like before he was just treated like shit by everyone around and he was still trying his best and now his life has completely gone south and he can’t do anything. Literally, he can just watch and do nothing .

And a point that a lot if ppl don’t think about is that the guy has DID . DID is a trauma based dissociative disorder meaning he’s been through some shit . Here a quote from the Wiki about this « A person with DID does not actually have multiple personalities but rather a lack of one integrated identity. This is caused by compromised brain development, which results from chronic trauma in childhood. »

3 years ago

reblog for a group of crows to choose you as their leader and follow you around every waking moment

3 years ago

Something I really loved about episode two of Moon Knight was that when Arthur called Steven broken, he immediately defended himself and said "I'm not broken, I just need some help". Really loved that little message Marvel threw in that people with mental illnesses are not broken and they just need help.

3 years ago

moon knight fulfills my childhood obsession with ancient egypt and my adult obsession with oscar isaac

3 years ago

uggg i was so excited to watch the second episode of moon knight today but i havent been able to sit still focusing on anything for longer than five minutes and im actually upset about this

man i just wanted to watch it but nooooo attention span went out the freaking window

-sully


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3 years ago

The main things we’ve gotten from the DID/OSDD community’s reaction and responses to the first Moon Knight episode is:

Accurate representation does not always equal representation that improves the public’s view/reduces stigma

Dramatic, dark, and morally complicated characters and stories involving DID can be accurate/not improbable but still negatively influence public opinion. This does not inherently make them bad rep; the audience is just entirely wrong at this time for the story

Accurate/probable depiction of specific symptoms can be done, but they might not represent the majority (like the “surrender the body” bits. That sounds exactly like our gatekeeper when someone has a stranglehold on the front, and making sure someone is letting go on their own will maintain and build trust. This isn’t the norm per say but it’s far from impossible)

At this time, the general non informed public cannot be relied upon to be able to separate dramatized representations of symptoms and their more toned down, real life counterparts. Because of this, making sure symptoms are not dramatized unnecessarily is important, so people can learn to tell the difference

3 years ago

Hey uh singlets maybe don't tag your random moon knight posts with DID-


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3 years ago

we’re such a mess but in such a fun chaotic way

we’re simultaneously reading “Pride And Prejudice”, writing our own queer murder mystery academia novel, writing a superhero novel, writing not one, not two, not three, but four fanfics from different fandoms, and rewatching both Moon Knight and Our Flag Means Death over and over and over again

I really don’t know what this system needs but it’s probably more therapy


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3 years ago

alright, now that moon knight is out, this is your reminder to actually listen to people with DID when they talk about the show


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3 years ago

I finished the fucking gay fucking pirate show and I'm not fucking coping


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3 years ago

Can't wait for the Moon Knight season finale when, in a surprise twist, Marc and Steven find out that Jake has been running a successful cab business on the side this whole time.


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3 years ago

if he calls his mom and it turns out she’s actually dead im going sue marvel & kick kevin in the balls


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3 years ago

y’all i started watched Our Flag Means Death today and HOLY CRAP!! i love this show so much already and i’m only two episodes in.

the characters, the plot, just everything

absolutely amazing

-sully


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3 years ago

Alright! So now that Moon Knight episode one is out I’d like to talk about it!

So first off! I thought that it was actually incredibly well written and portrayed D.I.D. almost perfectly. It showcased a lot of the issues most of us deal with (the waking up somewhere else, the sleep issues in general, the paranoia, the awkwardness of not knowing whats going on so you cant tell people whats wrong and such, and the just general questioning of reality). It was honestly extremely similar for us when we first started discovering the system and stuff.

So yea! I definitely liked it and am really excited to see where the rest of it goes!

But! I’ve already seen some posts and stuff about Steven and I want you all to remember that Steven is a grown man. While yes he may be confused and not know what’s going on do not treat him like some poor thing that needs to be protected at all costs. He’s just trying to live his life while slowly discovering the other alters in the system!

I would also like to mention please please please don’t refer to the alters as personalities! Personalities is a term originating from when D.I.D. used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder. The name for the disorder was changed because of new research and the fact that we are not personalities!!! Alters are their own people and you should not refer to them as personalities!!!


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3 years ago

Friendly reminder with Moon Knight coming out tomorrow;

PEOPLE WITH D.I.D. ACTUALLY EXIST AND HAVE FEELINGS

While the cast have come forward to say they tried their best to portray this disorder, they still probably won’t get it completely. And that’s ok, because at least it’ll be better representation than anything else we’ve had (hopefully).

What won’t be ok is if any of you singlets out there start treating it like its not something that seriously affects a lot of people or if you start infantilizing one of the alters of the main character. There are so many of us systems out here who really want to enjoy this show but if a bunch of you non-systems decide to take this disorder and not do any proper research on it before talking about it you could be ruining so many of our experiences with this show. So please, just remember this show is portraying an actual disorder many people have and regardless of if you think you’re spreading good information or not always double check your facts with someone who actually has the disorder.


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3 years ago

“love can hit you like a semi truck so hit your love back”

-L.W.


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3 years ago

im going to turn this isnt a love advice blog.

-l.w.

“just eat your lover’s lung so that you can say you really took their breath away”


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3 years ago

hi? uhhh im just really bored so here i am?

hi im liu (or L.W.). my existance is kind of a big trigger for the system as a whole but im slowly working through that (i can say my first name now!) and i think im doing pretty well at it

i have this nice little scarf i found in the closet, its grey and dark ggrey with little green stripes in between the other stripes. i havent taken it off since i got frontstuck a few days ago. it reminds me of my scarf

sully and i are still only one person flitting between the two of us but tim thinks the same thing that happened with jay and skully will eventually happen to us (they split into two seperate alters) so that could be interesting

ive made a few friends from source and stuff its pretty nice to talk to people i know! i only really know about two of the irl friends we have because they were around before i went dormant. i hope i get un frontstuck soon and maybe i can make some more friends? thatd be cool.

-L.W.


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3 years ago

ratz are typing….ᘛ⁐̤ᕐᐷ

Hi there! Welcome to our first introduction!

꒰ ☛✨☚ ꒱

Name: Harry Hook

Source: Disney’s Descendants

Pronouns: He/She/Sea

꒰ ☛✨☚ ꒱

Favorite Color: Red

Favorite Drink: Shirley Temples

Favorite Food: Apples

Favorite Object: Bracelet With A Hook On It

Favorite Source Object: His Hook or His Jacket

Favorite Source Memory: Practicing Sword Fighting With Gil And Uma

꒰ ☛✨☚ ꒱

Blurb: heyo. uhhh if anyone wants to chat m always up to it. m thinkin about settin myself up one of those instagrams things. have a good day mates!

꒰ ☛✨☚ ꒱


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