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The sky is pretty like you…
I miss you
I miss your voice
I miss your face
I miss everything about us
I know you not gone
But ANSWER THE DUCKING PHONE!!!!
PLEASE I BEG
Answer the phone and come home to our children my lovely bird
@echosunholy
TOGACHAKO OR WTV
now before I start I want to say that I do love the ship and I find nothing wrong with likening it as just that a ship and a romantic relationship, but I’m to me I think their relationship and dynamics runs deeper then just wanting to kiss each other and be to say that they are together. I think this relationship is more about understanding and kind of becoming one and realizing that even though they thought they were so different, they were still so the same kind of like one. LIKE ITS SO HARD TO EXPLAIN BUT LIKE EVERY TIME I SEE IT IN THE ROMANCE WAY I JUST CANT CAUSE OF HOW I TAKE TGE RELATIONSHIP AND IT MAKE SO ILL I CANT
I broke up with my girlfriend today, I'm literally upset. But she was talking rude to me, I did the bad finger and she said that's now funny. But then she tried being funny, she even let me sit by myself while we were doing art class. She didn't check up on me, or ask how I was doing. I just want someone who can treat me kindly and equal respect.
okay but, hear me out here, i actually had a relationship and it lasted and i wasn’t depressed
having anxious attachment styles SUCKS especially with long distance relationships bc yeah we’ve only been talking/dating for 2 months but you called me 3 days in a row bc last week on your way home from work and you message me consistently but i’ve only met you once or twice and now i feel ridiculous for missing you and feeling unmotivated to do anything now that it’s over
Checking my transits for valentines day and it's looking good y'all 😋🤭🤞🏾
Relationships are like food.
I just thought of this analogy and I think it works really well.
When making a meal you need to have a good flavor balance, you need the salty, the sweet, the savoury, and the spicy.
You are a part of the meal to so you need a food that compliments you well too. For example I think of myself as like a potato, I'm not super flavorful but I'm a good base and I go well with a lot of different flavors, aka I get along with people very easily. But there is certain foods that I get along with best and those are like my friends and family.
And so having relationships and making friendships is like making a meal. Sometimes you might need a bit more spice in your life so you will hang out with a more adventurous friend. Or maybe you don't like spice so you hanged out with a more sweet friend.
But it's still important to have a balance in your diet, to much of one thing can also be bad.
And some times someone doesn't compliment your flavor and it's okay. You can't expect everything to taste good together.
This also might be why opposites attract, they taste well together even if it's an odd flavor combination.
I just think that this is a cool concept and way to look at relationships.
want to see him and let him dick me down but to scared to even have a phone call with him
I think that to truly love someone, you need to allow half of your soul to live in another body. I think that's beautiful.
posting on here because it won't be seen
fuck I love him so much I just want everything to be okay why are feelings so complicated
Your soul knows. It will let you know when it's time to distance yourself from people who no longer align with you mentally, emotionally, physically, or energetically.
“Just remember. None of us have any idea what we’re doing either. No one chooses to exist. You just do. You’re gonna be okay.”
— Halsey
person a: when i love someone, i gaslight them
person b: you don’t gaslight me
person a: of course i do
person b: no, i don’t think you do
person a: yeah, i do, i gaslight you all the time, darling. how could you forget?
"I love you just the way you are" doesn't have the same value when you're trying to change
so my boss’s wife always makes way to much food for him for dinner to where he can’t always eat his lunch the next day at work. as a consequence, he gives me and my other coworker the peeled, and cut up apples she prepares for him.
he’s been lying to her for two years about eating the apples. we have to always return the containers the same day to keep up the lie. we’ve received hundreds of dollars worth of apples and labor.
Do y'all have a relationship that is like um you both like each other romantically but platonically is more strong so you both end up making out sometimes and sometimes just vibing.
Finding out that my sisters boyfriend is lowkey racist is not what i expected to come from this excursion to get dinner but ig thats how it is thesw days. Damn. Gotta kill him now
Unpopular opinion, but I don't actually know why everyone thinks Will was down with cannibalism. When he threw up the ear Hannibal shoved down his throat, he was horrified. There was a night he brought fish for him, Jack, and Hannibal to eat and snarled about it being his turn to provide the meat. He and Hannibal weren't engaging in cannibalism every time they had dinner together; we saw them eat other types of meat including those birds. The only time Will knowingly engaged in cannibalism was the night he was trying to trick Hannibal into thinking he killed Freddie Lounds but actually brought some of Randall Tier. After that night, Will had nightmares about bursting out of the raven stag and turning into a wendigo. I think people need to be more accepting of the fact that they can ship Hannigram without taking Will so out of character. Cannibalism bothered Will. Killing innocent people bothered Will. He only enjoyed killing bad people. They even acknowledge on the show that it's doing bad things to bad people that makes Will feel good, but he still feels guilty for feeling good about it. Will wasn't okay with the things Hannibal did. He even tells Alana that they had this mutual agreement to continue ignoring the worst in each other in order to enjoy the best. For Will, the worst in Hannibal was that he was a serial killer who killed and ate his victims for being rude. For Hannibal, the worst thing about Will was that he was working with the FBI to investigate him. Will being in love with Hannibal and Will not being down with killing and cannibalizing innocent people are two things that can and do coexist.
i dont know if i’ve made a post about this yet but i wanted to go over my views on relationships and sex as i was rambling about it to my brother the other day
personally, i view sex as just another part of your relationship with somebody. like i will casually sleep with friends, but not all of them. some of them i will casually cuddle and stuff, but again, not all of them. it just depends on the relationship you have with them.
and when it comes to dating, again, i just view that as your unique relationship with somebody. i understand that not everybody views dating this way, and it’s a conversation to have with any future partners, but i personally would want to still sleep with and date other people while in a relationship, and would be fine with my partner doing that too. i don’t like the idea of devoting my entire body to one singular person.
I Think About This A Lot To The Point Where It May Be Unhealthy
I'm a bit of a writer, and sometimes I sit reading romantic oneshots and headcannons. And I just get thinking, why does everyone write about 'the first time they met' or 'the first time they kissed' or 'their first valentine's day together'? If it were me, I'd want to read a oneshot titled 'the 315th time they kissed and yet they felt fireworks in their stomachs' or 'the 100th time he hugged me and secretly stole my coffee from the kitchen counter'. I want to read about love persevering. I don't want to read about a guy or a girl who's just fallen heads over heels. I want to read about a couple who has worked their way through the kinks in their relationship, smoothened out the wrinkles, ironed out the problems, and still love each other wholeheartedly. I don't want to read about the first time a guy or girl kisses me. I want to read about the day he kissed me just to distract me from the fact that he was being chased by the police (now wouldn't that be an interesting one?) or the day she stole my car keys because she doesn't have a car and wants to buy groceries for me because I'm tired. I don't want to read about the 'I would cross the world for you, darling' kind of love. I want to read about the 'I would certainly cross the world for you, but only if you're paying for half of it afterwards' kind of love.
I don't want to read about someone falling in love. I want to read about someone working to love someone, earning that love, and making it theirs for the rest of their lives.
I got a very weird and interesting problem.
How do I figure out if I am dating a person?
The person I suspect to be dating has kissed me several times, we always cuddle when hanging out and hold hands in public. We also text every day, but that might be because I try so hard to always text because I know that he doesn't mind texting with me so I am less afraid to be annoying to him.
I know that I like him and that he is bi so he might be into me too.
But I also know that he would rather have a girlfriend then a boyfriend.
since it's Valentine's Day soon and I'm single, I thought that I would document all my relationship icks about men (don't have any for women, women are always wonderful)
I hate guys who fetishize emo/ alt people. Just cause I want a choker doesn't mean I'm into kinky shit. ( One time these random ass guys called me good girl and I cringed so fucking hard my body hurt)
Sorry babe you got a like anime or at least be neutral and if you insult shoujo Istg
Tall men. Y'all are really cool to be friends with but too intimidating as a 5'1" girlie.
Men who aren't silly I LOVE SILLY LITTLE GUYS AGHHHH
blond guys. Y'all slay but not for me, I prefer black/ dark brown hair.
Crossing boundaries, self explanatory
Homophobes/transphobes, general ass holes
Men who make fun of your weight ( I'm not fat, but I'm def not super skinny and overall I don't wanna hear a boy insult anybody for their weight)
Country music
Bonus, my SINGULAR ick for women
Don't be a bitch. That simple
𝕴'𝖒 𝖏𝖚𝖘𝖙 𝖆 𝖍𝖔𝖑𝖞 𝖋𝖔𝖔𝖑, 𝖔𝖍, 𝖇𝖆𝖇𝖞, 𝖎𝖙'𝖘 𝖘𝖔 𝖈𝖗𝖚𝖊𝖑, 𝕴'𝖒 𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖑𝖑 𝖎𝖓 𝖑𝖔𝖛𝖊 𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖍 𝕵𝖚𝖉𝖆𝖘, 𝖇𝖆𝖇𝖞...
I think independence is a requirement to a relationship, and I dont like how it’s portraited like a problem.
This is very important, always make sure to properly stimulate your bfs
Having a boyfriend is literally free
i love when love isn’t fully realized. my favorite kind of relationships are the ones that are messy and cross lines and aren’t easily defined. the in between friends and lovers is the best part to me
Having someone play the guitar at you is ok if she's beautiful and my wife and I get to stare at her like a dog that really wants a piece of cheese but that's what the Barbie Movie doesn't want you to know.
I hate that I get matches on online dating just to find the majority of the men that match with me don't have the same interests as me. Like what the fuck. It's boring to talk to a guy who has zero interest in your interest, but I be damn if I settle for a guy who is not in the same interest. Conversation is boring as hell. Wasting me time. I might as well be single until I die of old age.
How do I go by this? Does anyone have tips or suggestions?