Corvina Answers - Blog Posts

What's your favourite position, and how may I serve you mistress?

First point, I'm not your Mistress, I'm only that to one person and that's cos he's my partner, beloved submissive and an amazing man.

How you can serve? You can serve yourself by educating yourself to be a little more original or informative in an ask.

My favourite position right now is sat with the cat on my lap, listening to the rain and drinking a cup of tea.

Are you a witch?

Yes, I'm pagan, and been a nature witch for a long time. I love feeling the energy in nature, and am poly theistic (ask for specifics if you want to know, I don't force my beliefs on people)

I'm a rock hard scientist but I believe that magic is often the science we don't understand yet, just as it would have seemed years ago before electricity was understood etc

I'm not currently Wiccan although researching, and I'm an individual practitioner albeit with overlap with my partner and occasionally friends in devotions or offerings

I'd love to be able to dowse ... I'm pretty sure there's a deep spring under my house as I feel energy in a particular spot.

Animals always give me a sense of belonging in addition to woods and wild swimming; I just don't get to do it enough

I hope that answers your question

What are you feelings about mommy domme play?

TL;DR ... to each their own, no judgment

Thank you for the question.

I'll disambiguate it a bit.

Mommy domme in my real life experience is often with littles with whom there's a definite style but also obviously subject to boundaries and scene negotiation. I've enjoyed gentle participation at events with contemporaries of mine who have little in their care. It can be quite sweet, but can also be more sexual and it's not an area I'm comfy or interested in, if that's the case.

Online ... mommy domme again can be quite sweet, but to me seems to have a lot of repetition that for me just doesn't work. If you're my submissive I expect you to know to drink enough water, manage your life, and own your own situations. I'm a busy professional person and parent to four adult children, I really don't have time to micro manage you. If mommy domme means just the more nurturing side rather than sadistic, strict or sensual then that's fine but for me I'm very sensual and a lot of submissive or dominant play is in line with that.

I am however very picky for myself in who I talk to, I'm in the position I can be. Sometimes I talk to people who obviously get an initial something then either back off, or apparently can't or don't want to make any effort themselves. I'm not sure if this is a personal maturity thing or mindset on their part, or perhaps a general preference for subs with mommy domm leaning.

There are, apparently, lots of people on tumblr who seem to enjoy the nurturing micromanaging role, so if that's what you're looking for I'm sure you'll have plenty to approach.

Be safe, sane and consensual always.

Would Domina be ok please?

I don't see it used as much as others, and I've used some hypnosis files that use the term.

I'm not sure would work as a combination... Domina Corvina flows but feels a little like a tongue twister, although I do like them.

Thank you

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Domina is just fine thank you.

I agree about the combination, just stick with putting a personal intent behind the use of Domina please.

I'm glad you like tongue twisters, they're very enjoyable sometimes

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Hello Corvina

I was wondering how I should address you, I'm interested in talking to you about what submission might mean for online contact only.

You say to approach you politely but don't say any particular honorific?

Can I have this emoji please?

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Thank you for the polite approach.

Don't use Mistress, that's reserved for my partner, thank you for checking about it. I probably should put it on my bio but as I'm open about my age, I don't get a huge number of enquiries ... which kind of suits me as it filters out the twats.

What should you use? There are the usual options you'll see on tumblr. Why not try one out which gives me an idea where your head is at, I'll tell you very quickly if it's not acceptable. Follow your heart and polite approach and see what that tells you, and me.

Yes of course you can have that emoji

I do accept DMs once you feel a little more brave or do a non anonymous ask with your emoji so I can see your profile

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Hello Priestess, I just saw your bio and had a question about the way you connect with your online sub. If you're comfortable saying, how do you enjoy interaction online with them? Does it need to be video so you can see them? Does text work? I'm curious what the dynamic is like since you're not meeting them in person. Have you, or would you ever consider meeting them face to face, or is the relationship built on maintaining some degree of physical separation? Thank you for anything you can offer!

Thank you for the polite ask, it's appreciated.

For tumblr it's text only. I don't do videos, pictures or voice. My experience is people get carried away, sometimes in the moment, and it can go places you'd rather it didn't. And that's even when boundaries have been clearly communicated.

To me interaction with an online submissive is a very different one to real life, I know that's obvious but for some people they're using online to gain a real dynamic. That's not where I'm at, I have a satisfying real life partner and submissive and I'm part of my local bdsm community, including events. I have a trusted circle of people including my partner who I met online

Online submissives are generally more about variety, there are people who might intrigue me (especially women) but are so far away it's never going to happen. So submission in that context might be them taking instructions, behaviour modification, trance or relaxation using text and so on. But it can be time consuming so I'm choosy. I can be.

There are people who are open to meeting people from tumblr, I would always counsel caution, I've found it to be an unreliable source. Online sites including the well known fetish ones are generally safer, although a brain, common sense and safety measures should always be applied before you meet anyone or give access to images or videos of yourself.

Be safe, hope that was helpful

Why are you a gothic priestess?

It was mainly a bit of fun lol

But I do have a certain standing ... I'm strongly dominant in BDSM relationships and enjoy adoration.

Are you wanting to do so?

I'm enjoying your blog, you post some lovely diverse things, but I note your likes are very sexual, and a few posts as well. How does that support the goth and emo girl or woman. Sounds like bullshit to me.

Wow, I'm not sure if you realise how aggressive that reads. Maybe you don't mean it maybe you do.

I'm authentic. My sexuality is important to me and I'm a feminist and gothic/alternative individual. I've self described at work as Other as early as it was possible and BDSM/alternative sexuality as soon as I could I'm part way through creating some products for people I identify with most, but expect that these will also be accessible to others.

Sexuality is a big part of who I am as I have had to struggle against people in my family and romantic partners in order to express it and embrace who I am fully. In my experience many people, including women and girls, in the alternative and gothic vein are adept at expressing their sexual individuality.

Bullshit? I don't think so.

I hope this answered your post and whatever the motivation was behind it.