What's Your Favourite Position, And How May I Serve You Mistress?

I'm enjoying your blog, you post some lovely diverse things, but I note your likes are very sexual, and a few posts as well. How does that support the goth and emo girl or woman. Sounds like bullshit to me.

Wow, I'm not sure if you realise how aggressive that reads. Maybe you don't mean it maybe you do.

I'm authentic. My sexuality is important to me and I'm a feminist and gothic/alternative individual. I've self described at work as Other as early as it was possible and BDSM/alternative sexuality as soon as I could I'm part way through creating some products for people I identify with most, but expect that these will also be accessible to others.

Sexuality is a big part of who I am as I have had to struggle against people in my family and romantic partners in order to express it and embrace who I am fully. In my experience many people, including women and girls, in the alternative and gothic vein are adept at expressing their sexual individuality.

Bullshit? I don't think so.

I hope this answered your post and whatever the motivation was behind it.

Omg. Love it

This is so beautiful

Damaged

To the past me, with lots of hugs and self love that I should have had at the time

I'm busy ... finally getting my mojo and finishing off journals, diaries and other lifestyle aids for my chosen clan - Gothic and Alternative - if that wasn't clear. Links and examples coming soon, so forgive me in the meantime for posting less relevant stuff, just getting my creative juices flowing and feeling a bit more confident as i step out ...

I think I may have just had a small orgasm, lol. Yummy images.

Tumblr Tuesday: One for The Sapphics

It’s Lesbian Visibility Week! Happy lesbian visibility to all who celebrate the visibility of lesbians all year round. Please enjoy this little collection of sapphic (fan)art to honor the occasion, and may we all remember to give the lesbians in our lives a little forehead kiss. 🧡🤍🩷

@mimimar:

@greenfinchg-illustration:

@gentlemosses:

@doodlenoodleh:

@tapiocats:

@coldcigarettes:

@theartofmadeline:

@clipsindrawers:

@mayakern:

@cronchy-baguette:

@emiuli:

@causticcapricorn:

@zucchini-draws:

@carabiner-pansy:

@adalheidis:

@fshfish:

@thatssofarahh:

@evgar:

@katieaki:

@bhramarii:

@dyke-dyke-goose:

Never trust a girl when you should have trusted a woman

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

I am so ridiculously happy for kazuyuki Ishihara winning both gold and best in show ... His reaction just amazing... Have loved his courtyard gardens with soft dark moist moss so much, and this year's main avenue was a departure, but still so true to form. Only just watched today, I gasped so loud I swear a little wee came out. Lol. Well done sir.

Oh my. My red demon seems to often have the winning vote lol