There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.
It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.
Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.
Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre
Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough
don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.
Hmmm ... yes, lol.
With someone yummy to serve me some wine and snacks. And maybe order a sofa.
How true. I absolutely love delivering that line, but also making them wait and get all hot and bothered wondering when I'm going to say it. It's a tease that is almost as effective as physical tease play.
Yummy
boys are such sluts. all you have to do is throw a condescending ‘good boy’ in the same way you would coo to a pet and they’re already hard and leaky.
Hello Corvina
I was wondering how I should address you, I'm interested in talking to you about what submission might mean for online contact only.
You say to approach you politely but don't say any particular honorific?
Can I have this emoji please?
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Thank you for the polite approach.
Don't use Mistress, that's reserved for my partner, thank you for checking about it. I probably should put it on my bio but as I'm open about my age, I don't get a huge number of enquiries ... which kind of suits me as it filters out the twats.
What should you use? There are the usual options you'll see on tumblr. Why not try one out which gives me an idea where your head is at, I'll tell you very quickly if it's not acceptable. Follow your heart and polite approach and see what that tells you, and me.
Yes of course you can have that emoji
I do accept DMs once you feel a little more brave or do a non anonymous ask with your emoji so I can see your profile
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Awesome. I have the killstar coffin travel case on wheels and it always gets admiring comments and looks when I travel. Mind you it got some quizzical looks when I went into hospital with it earlier in the year!
𝕷𝖎𝖋𝖊’𝖘 𝖆 𝖘𝖈𝖗𝖊𝖆𝖒 𝖜𝖍𝖊𝖓 𝖞𝖔𝖚’𝖗𝖊 𝖆 𝖒𝖔𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖗…
I wanted to shoot a look at this location for years! I think the monster high x killstar collab worked really well with it so happy with how the photos turned out!
This is the reason I love giving a man a good caning
ut severis seges
Now this is the blooming flower of femininity I treasure, no drama, it cups under my hand and knows it's place. It's sweetness? I'll wait till I crush it for nutrients lol
Omg this is so true. I could have avoided a failed marriage, divorce and an exposure to a narcissistic parter if I'd realised this earlier. I'd then also not ha e two children I dearly love though, so out of some dark traumas come wonderful things.
Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl. I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. See links coming soon for Amazon products ... be good ...
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