To The Past Me, With Lots Of Hugs And Self Love That I Should Have Had At The Time

Reblog if you’re polyamorous, support polyamorous people, or think polyamorous people and relationships are valid

Reflecting on the pleasure of getting to know someone new, and how adorable young women can be, especially when you find a polite, interesting and respectful one

Yep I've been here, and phoenix like am strong from the ashes, but gentle as the breeze from my wings from that birth. (C) corvina fae 2025 this text not the original above

“If you have been brutally broken, but still have the courage to be gentle to others then you deserve a love deeper than the ocean itself.”

— Nikita Gill

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

... And does fantasy set us free? Or further enslave us to the hope of something better? (C) Corvina Fae 2025 lol

i can’t escape

Aha ha. This is sooooo true.

I love this so much

Omg ... I need her so bad lol

🕸🕸🕸

This is so beautiful

Damaged

I love this ... Which explains to me why the most mundane acts with someone can be so hugely charged, whereas with someone else a beautifully crafted scene can sometimes fall flat ...

Adélia Prado, The Mystical Rose: Selected Poems, from “Dysrhythmia“ tr by Ellen Watson