Hello Priestess, I Just Saw Your Bio And Had A Question About The Way You Connect With Your Online Sub.
Hello Priestess, I just saw your bio and had a question about the way you connect with your online sub. If you're comfortable saying, how do you enjoy interaction online with them? Does it need to be video so you can see them? Does text work? I'm curious what the dynamic is like since you're not meeting them in person. Have you, or would you ever consider meeting them face to face, or is the relationship built on maintaining some degree of physical separation? Thank you for anything you can offer!
Thank you for the polite ask, it's appreciated.
For tumblr it's text only. I don't do videos, pictures or voice. My experience is people get carried away, sometimes in the moment, and it can go places you'd rather it didn't. And that's even when boundaries have been clearly communicated.
To me interaction with an online submissive is a very different one to real life, I know that's obvious but for some people they're using online to gain a real dynamic. That's not where I'm at, I have a satisfying real life partner and submissive and I'm part of my local bdsm community, including events. I have a trusted circle of people including my partner who I met online
Online submissives are generally more about variety, there are people who might intrigue me (especially women) but are so far away it's never going to happen. So submission in that context might be them taking instructions, behaviour modification, trance or relaxation using text and so on. But it can be time consuming so I'm choosy. I can be.
There are people who are open to meeting people from tumblr, I would always counsel caution, I've found it to be an unreliable source. Online sites including the well known fetish ones are generally safer, although a brain, common sense and safety measures should always be applied before you meet anyone or give access to images or videos of yourself.
Be safe, hope that was helpful
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Now this is the blooming flower of femininity I treasure, no drama, it cups under my hand and knows it's place. It's sweetness? I'll wait till I crush it for nutrients lol
Why are you a gothic priestess?
It was mainly a bit of fun lol
But I do have a certain standing ... I'm strongly dominant in BDSM relationships and enjoy adoration.
Are you wanting to do so?
Yep I've been here, and phoenix like am strong from the ashes, but gentle as the breeze from my wings from that birth. (C) corvina fae 2025 this text not the original above
“If you have been brutally broken, but still have the courage to be gentle to others then you deserve a love deeper than the ocean itself.”
— Nikita Gill
Ok so ive posted on these before but it deserves a further post as the flowers have developed ... Stunning pink purple dragon mouths on the flowers (there probably a technical name) ... And planning to put the plant somewhere in my small border today where I sit out and have a cup of tea ... Or wine at the weekend lol. Beautiful
What are you feelings about mommy domme play?
TL;DR ... to each their own, no judgment
Thank you for the question.
I'll disambiguate it a bit.
Mommy domme in my real life experience is often with littles with whom there's a definite style but also obviously subject to boundaries and scene negotiation. I've enjoyed gentle participation at events with contemporaries of mine who have little in their care. It can be quite sweet, but can also be more sexual and it's not an area I'm comfy or interested in, if that's the case.
Online ... mommy domme again can be quite sweet, but to me seems to have a lot of repetition that for me just doesn't work. If you're my submissive I expect you to know to drink enough water, manage your life, and own your own situations. I'm a busy professional person and parent to four adult children, I really don't have time to micro manage you. If mommy domme means just the more nurturing side rather than sadistic, strict or sensual then that's fine but for me I'm very sensual and a lot of submissive or dominant play is in line with that.
I am however very picky for myself in who I talk to, I'm in the position I can be. Sometimes I talk to people who obviously get an initial something then either back off, or apparently can't or don't want to make any effort themselves. I'm not sure if this is a personal maturity thing or mindset on their part, or perhaps a general preference for subs with mommy domm leaning.
There are, apparently, lots of people on tumblr who seem to enjoy the nurturing micromanaging role, so if that's what you're looking for I'm sure you'll have plenty to approach.
Be safe, sane and consensual always.
I love this, says it all really, femininity nurtures the land and gives life to it, and takes pleasure in that giving (c) corvina fae text, image unknown origin.
Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl. I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. See links coming soon for Amazon products ... be good ...
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