Learn To Detach, From People That Are No Longer Serving You, From Past Experiences That Have No Direct

I love my energy. I love being sweet, kind, light, gleamy, hair tucked behind my ear, pure, blushy, and soft spoken. But on the flip side I love being sexy, flirty, charismatic, magnetic, wild natural curls going every which way, outspoken, deep eye contact, and alluring

I’ve taught myself to never give anyone the satisfaction of getting a reaction out of me, no matter what the situation is. I’ve worked so hard to reach this level of inner peace. My growth, peace and sanity is one of my priorities. No one will ever have the privilege of getting me to react towards anything lower than my vibration.

The femenine urge to play dumb (strategically)

Essentialism, Greg McKeown

Be highly selective. Don’t attend meetings when you have nothing to contribute, don’t read newsletters if you already know or if it doesn’t really matter to you. Stop moving an inch forward in a million different directions and start gaining momentum in getting one major thing done.

Pursue less but better in a disciplined way

Warren Buffet owes 90% of his wealth to just 10 investments

On trade offs: don’t ask ‘what do I want to give up?’ ask ‘what do I want to go big on?’

Less, but better : if trying to start a journaling habit, start by always writing less than you want to. Usually, on the first day, you’ll write many pages, and then you’ll quickly start to dreading having to write so much. Until you’ve made journaling a habit, write very little.

Your strategy can’t be “pretty clear”. Anyone who wears glasses knows there is a difference between “pretty clear” and “really clear”.

Learn the art of the slow yes and the quick no

Beware the sunk cost bias: continuing something we would otherwise move on from, simply because we have already invested time or money in it. It’s a vicious cycle

To attain knowledge, add things everyday. To attain wisdom, subtract things everyday. - Lao Tzu

Cues are essential in making routines smoother: if you charge your phone each night and you’d like to start journaling, put your journal right by your charger

Tackle your routines one by one: to get big results, we must start small

Eat mindfully. Live in the moment

Check in often to ensure meaningful progress

You mentioned that you don't get easily heartbroken and I was wondering how do you do it?!

Hey Habibti,

Everyone is different so don't stress about it. There is nothing wrong with heartbreak.

I get disgusted by men's actions a lot more than being sad over it. If a man decides to disrespect me, I am highly turned off. Depending on what the issue is - I can't find him attractive again. It's more "ew" than "boohoo" for me.

I have my own personal list of things I need to see from a man before I even think of allowing my emotions in. I might flirt and have a fun time with you but my feelings won't bother to develop beyond finding someone physically attractive if certain things aren't met.

I barely have time to pay attention to men who aren't attracted to me. I barely get crushes that consume me because I might find a man attractive but he will never take up space in my mind without it being reciprocated. I don't have the time or energy.

I don't believe rejection is the worst thing in the world. If someone doesn't see your value or isn't attracted to it, that doesn't mean it isn't there. I am not for everyone and not everyone is for me.

With All My Love,

Heart💚

I think the recent events in my life showed me that you owe it to yourself to move on, it will take time and energy, but you must eventually move on. Maybe nothing will truly be the same after that person/situation/ etc yet life is not meant to truly stay the same for eternity. People and situations will leave an imprint, a mark on you yet everything must regenerate and that's exactly the purpose of life. You owe it to yourself to give life a second, even a third, and fourth (etc) chance. I think I am ready again to open myself up to new connections after certain disappointments I had this year. But I owe it to myself to give life and love a new chance.