You Mentioned That You Don't Get Easily Heartbroken And I Was Wondering How Do You Do It?!

You mentioned that you don't get easily heartbroken and I was wondering how do you do it?!

Hey Habibti,

Everyone is different so don't stress about it. There is nothing wrong with heartbreak.

I get disgusted by men's actions a lot more than being sad over it. If a man decides to disrespect me, I am highly turned off. Depending on what the issue is - I can't find him attractive again. It's more "ew" than "boohoo" for me.

I have my own personal list of things I need to see from a man before I even think of allowing my emotions in. I might flirt and have a fun time with you but my feelings won't bother to develop beyond finding someone physically attractive if certain things aren't met.

I barely have time to pay attention to men who aren't attracted to me. I barely get crushes that consume me because I might find a man attractive but he will never take up space in my mind without it being reciprocated. I don't have the time or energy.

I don't believe rejection is the worst thing in the world. If someone doesn't see your value or isn't attracted to it, that doesn't mean it isn't there. I am not for everyone and not everyone is for me.

With All My Love,

Heart💚