One Of The Hardest Parts About Trauma Is Overcoming Hyper-independence And Understanding That You Don’t

Go where you’re wanted and cherished, not just tolerated. This applies to every area of your life: relationships, jobs, environments. Our energy is like currency. If we keep investing it in things that give nothing back, we end up drained. But when we pour into what pours back, we grow. You can only try to force alignment for so long before it starts costing you more than it’s worth.

You might not be valuable in everyone’s eyes, but to the right people, you’re exactly the blessing they’ve been praying for. That doesn’t mean settling or forcing yourself into spaces you don’t like; it means opening yourself up to new ones you didn’t know you’d love, and that love you right back.

Sent over by my mentor

you have got to learn how to style your hair and wigs.

I’ve been styling and making wigs, doing hair, and enjoying playing cosmetologist since I was young and I’ve found that it’s saved me so much money and gotten me so much clout within my friend groups. I’m known as the one who can do hair and I take a lot of pride in it, it’s important to know how to do something and know how to do it well and it’s important to take a lot of pride in your work. I have specialised hair, I’m not always able to find a stylist who I trust and I don’t mess around when it comes to my hair and making sure that it looks good, it can be incredibly annoying to have a mishap and have to figure out what to do last minute and it can be a nightmare to take care of wigs and buy them, below are videos on how to make your own wigs, style your wigs, dye your wigs, install your wigs, and care for your wigs so that you have hairstyles that last.

here’s the list.

beginner braid pattern for a wig install.

beginner middle part braid down tutorial.

arrogant tae swoop tutorial part one.

arrogant tae swoop tutorial part two.

full frontal install with detailed plucking.

lace frontal and closure plucking masterclass.

how to bleach, pluck, and customise a closure.

how to install an HD lace frontal for beginners.

how to tint your lace to the correct colour.

how to cut and style a blunt cut bob.

how to do a bald cap installation.

how to install a lace frontal perfectly.

how to make a closure look like a frontal.

how to create wispy bangs.

how to use a hot comb correctly.

how to dye your wig blonde.

how to pluck da fuck out of a hairline.

how to tweeze a perfect middle part.

how to do a 360 lace install with waterproof glue.

how to highlight your wig easily.

how to highlight like a pro.

beginner friendly detailed highlighting.

how to highlight with a highlighting cap.

how to dye a wig jet black.

how to dye a wig red/burgundy.

how to dye a 360 lace wig bronze.

how to dye a wig honey blonde.

how to dye a wig ash blonde.

how to dye a wig half and half.

how to dye a wig chestnut brown.

how to do bombshell curls on a wig.

how to cut layers in a wig.

how to install a frontal wig and cut layers.

how to do a wolf cut on a wig.

how to do curtain bangs with layers on a wig.

how to do voluminous layers on a wig.

how to do a roller set on a wig.

how to do a flexirod set on a wig.

how to do a middle part flexirod set on a wig.

what you need in a wig kit.

the best wig glue.

how to make a synthetic wig look natural.

how to straighten a part.

how to straighten a wig with no frizz.

how to fix a hole in your wig lace.

how to straighten a blunt cut bob.

how to make a closure wig.

how to make a flat closure wig.

how to make a closure wig using a sewing machine.

how to make a u-part wig.

how to install a u-part wig.

how to make a u-part wig for beginners.

how to make a natural part u-part wig.

how to do a flawless u-part wig install.

how to install a versatile u-part wig.

how to turn a closure wig into a u-part wig.

how to make a synthetic wig look natural.

how to customise a synthetic wig.

how to install clip-ins like a pro.

how to flawlessly blend clip-ins.

how to install clip-ins on relaxed hair.

how to install clip-ins on pressed hair.

how to install tape-in extensions.

how to blend clip-ins with relaxed hair.

how to do a frontal ponytail.

how to do a frontal high ponytail.

how to do a frontal low ponytail.

how to install a 90’s style wig. 

how to install a half up, half down swoop wig.

how to do a simple quick weave.

how to do a diy versatile quick weave.

how to do a detailed middle part quick weave.

how to do a natural quick weave with leave out.

how to do a versatile sew in with no closure.

how to do a sew in with a closure.

how to do a flawless 5x5 closure sew in.

how to do a beginner friendly closure sew in.

how to do a sew in with minimal leave out.

how to do your own natural looking sew in.

how to clean and wash your lace front wigs.

how to wash your hair underneath your wigs/sew ins.

I’ve also thought of this a lot and I can finally say that I truly believe that while the quality of the hair and the products you use are definitely extremely important, so is the technique you use. You could spend a full $1k on a wig but it wouldn’t look good unless you knew how to pluck and install it, there are plenty of really hot affordable synthetic wigs and synthetic/human hair blend wigs currently on the market, there are ways to install wigs that are simple but still end up making you look like you’re on fire, and there are wigs that are on the more expensive end that just won’t look good if you don’t know how to install them. Knowing how to do your own hair is truly an S-Tier skill, some salons and stylists are so expensive these days that it’s just not feasible to go in every week to have your hair done and it’s great to be able to do your hair whenever you want to and make it look good, you’ll end up saving so much money and exchanging only time, you can learn how to do your own styles, and you can even take all the skills you’ve learned and make a profit from them.

Ligeia.

— Susan Sontag, from “Death Kit,” (1967) (via lunamonchtuna)

i needed to read this today so im sharing it to all of you!!

I been tracking my mood & I think social media is affecting my mood tremendously. Anything you recommend for boredom without instagram, tik tok , twitter , and even limiting myself on tumblr. I mentally can’t afford to spend so much time like this behind a screen.

I have the perfect thing to focus on….. yourself 😍❤️

These are all the things I do, that I thorougly enjoy and aren’t related to social media… and they all make me better too.

Cooking, farmers markets

Learning and taking notes about health, beauty, history etc

Learning new languages

Reading

A very extensive beauty routine

Going on long walks, grounding

Making my million juices

Pilates

Stock market

Creative hobbies

Journaling

Hair, nails

More income related things

Etc etc etc

I set a timer on my phone, and I limit my social media use to one hour a day. When you focus too much on others, you end up living for them instead of yourself. But when you spend your time on things that fulfill you and help you grow, you stop feeling like you’re missing out. You won’t care what others are doing because you’ll be busy doing what makes you feel good.

Start doing things that make you happy & help you improve. Think of time away from the internet as a way to take control of your mind and emotions. Value your time and invest your energy in things that truly give you a high ROI.