One Thing I’ve Noticed About People In Or Entering Their 30s Is They Don’t Make As Many Compromises

One thing I’ve noticed about people in or entering their 30s is they don’t make as many compromises anymore. If someone doesn’t meet them halfway, is not up to standard, is just not where they’re needed to be, they’re just like “ok cool” and they move on from the person. Which is not to say they’re less empathetic or understanding, but more that they have learned that time is their most prized possession and they’re not willing to make massive compromises on it. They are not obsessed w the idea of fixing someone (bc the concept of fixing a person doesn’t really exist). They simply move on to someone who is up to par. I want that. I want to always move w the awareness that time is my most priceless belonging and I can never buy it back. Ever. So I have to use it wisely

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Thunderstorms were sent from Neurodivergent hell to terrorize autistic people (me) and it’s honestly ableist🌪️⛈️

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1 year ago

This was me a couple years ago.. now I’m diagnosed with both

Y'all neurodivergent folks need to STOP create relatable post. I need to stop to relate to them, alright? I have literally no simtomphs of ADHD or autism, but I can relate to all your post, so please stop create stuff so specifical. I can't deal with another self-dyagnosis.

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You've heard of adhd/autism supremacy, now get ready for the ot3 equivalent:

Adhd/autism/anxiety


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1 year ago

I can’t handle loud.. unless it’s my music, then it’s never loud enough

It’s definitely sound for me. As always reblog for a bigger sample size please!


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1 year ago

Y/N: You always look so unapproachable.

Bucky: And yet here you are.

1 year ago
A Commission That I’ve Worked On A While Back.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

A commission that I’ve worked on a while back.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

This was the second image in the series of illustrations featuring Bucky Barnes as The Winter Soldier during the four seasons. Here he is in winter, cuddled up with some animals.

These paintings were super fun to work on and made me step out of my comfort zone a bit, because I don’t draw characters a lot.

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