i’m actually shocked this hit every goal LMAO. i guess i have a lot to work on 100%. yesterday for the first time i told a person IRL that i identify as male when asked, and i’m giving away all my ‘emergency’ feminine clothes, plus getting an actual packer this weekend
if this gets 100 notes, i’ll do as many suggestions from the comments / reposts as possible <3
i do better under pressure sooooo i’ll also do the whole notes = i actually get off my ass and work towards my transition thing. this probably won’t work but it’s kinda fun to write out what i want to do
10 notes - i actually correct people on my pronouns socially
20 notes - i throw out any old girl clothes (old leggings, just in case girly dresses, etc)
30 notes - i work on voice training for a deeper voice
40 notes - i stop shaving any facial hair
50 notes - i start packing (i usually don’t because i’m convinced people will clock it as fake, but also who gaf ??)
maybe i’ll reblog with more later, idk
another random thing
did any other trans guy just get REALLY attracted to men once they realized they were trans ??? like, i’m not talking about once you start t because i’m not on t yet but like
i thought i was a lesbian for a while, but i’m not even THAT into women anymore ?? i’m bi with a heavy male preference, idk if this happened to anyone else or what?
okay hi first post i’m so crossed rn ngl……. first time being crossed yay !!!! i don’t know if the germinayology is widespread it is when you get weed and drink and it’s very fun i’m watching minecraft with friend
don’t know why i’m posting this i’m very tired also
chopped my hair, got a new binder, and my facial hair is starting to be significantly more present/clearly masculine, this fucking rocks. any other suggestions to get present/feel more masculine?
randomly came across your account while looking at likes of a post and OMG I LOVE YOUR USERNAME ok goodbye stranger maybe we meet in another life
thank you !! it’s based on the song by sloppy jane !!! goodbye stranger !! <3
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okay so i just need to rant and kinda need advice
there’s this girl i’m friends with, and i need to start this by adding i’m not wanting to attack her or anything, i’m just trying to understand what’s happening
so, i’m a trans guy. she’s known me when i was in the closet— but it was literally glass, her + all of my other friends admitted that they weren’t surprised when i came out. she was super cool about it. she’s queer and a total ally to trans people, esp considering there’s other non cis people in our group
but like… she keeps saying stuff that makes me feel like she doesn’t see me like a man ??? even tho she’s super cool with like anyone else being trans ??? she’s not malicious at all with it or being remotely transphobic openly, but it’s a few little things that are making me really confused
for example, we were at the mall and all trying on dresses for shits and giggles. she convinced me to try on one and i absolutely HATED it. i felt so weird and uncomfortable and i was standing in the dressing room all stiff and gross.
my other friend noticed and was like “yeah no i can tell you’re crazy dysphoric rn go put your pants on”
but she comes up, and she asks what i’m trying on next. i say i’m not trying anything on and she gets visibly upset and keeps trying to get me to try them on. i was gonna just do it to make her happy but my friend stepped in and said i was obviously really dysphoric and uncomfortable and i wasn’t gonna. she got really weird about it and just walked off.
she also gets kinda weird whenever i mention being a man or transitioning and stuff ?
but it’s this one thing that gets men really annoyed. my best friend is gender-fluid, but they mostly present feminine and uses female terms mostly. the friend i’m talking about keeps making jokes about me and my best friend being a gay couple. i snapped once and told her we’re not fucking dating and even if we were, we wouldn’t be a lesbian couple like i felt like she was implying
but she keeps making couple jokes ??? specially gay couple jokes, but i feel like she’s implying we’re lesbians
i’m just frustrated. i don’t think she’s transphobic, she’s openly an ally to literally everyone else about not being cis, but specifically me i think she just thinks i’m a confused butch lesbian. or maybe this is just a mistake because i only came out mid last year?? idk
i don’t know if i should talk to her about this or if i should just keep moving on and hope she gets better with it. she’s a genuinely good friend and i don’t wanna lose her over this, but also every time she implies me and my friend are lesbians i wanna rip my hair out
okay update ??? i asked for a diff friend’s comb yesterday to fix my bangs and the friend i mentioned above (i have a huge fat crush ngl) insisted on being the one to do it. like, they grabbed me by the chin and started fixing my bangs, and when i moved my head to look at something they grabbed my jaw to move my face back and kept holding my face even after they were done ???
is that a sign chat
i just had the FREAKIEST dream about my friend at a sleepover and woke up with my head on their chest and their arm on my back refusing to let me get up… it is NOT casual anymore
so i came out as transgender to my mom !!!! woop !!! she was cool with it and i’m very happy hooray !!!
this is gonna be an incoherent rant but i’m actually so sick of stuff rn
so, for context, i’m a trans guy. i’m out to my mom, not my dad. he used to be such a genuinely kind human being before trump got elected, and suddenly it feels like i lost him. he’s a totally different person and i genuinely feel like i can’t come out to him
i’m going on t the second i can but i know when i do i might lose him forever. i feel like i’m already mourning our relationship and he knows, he can sense me pulling away and doesn’t know why
i don’t wanna hurt him. i wanna go back in the closet so fucking bad and have his love forever but the idea of pretending to be a girl any longer makes me literally wanna claw my skin off. i don’t know what to do and i don’t know what’s worth it.
before anyone worries, he’s not violent at all and he won’t kick me out, i just know that our relationship might not be the same. i used to be a daddy’s girl, going to see every new marvel movie with him. now i can’t be around him without him going on a fox news rant and it makes me sick
i just want to be his son and i don’t know if that will ever happen
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