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A pink girl living in a pink world

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Everybody Loves Me Affs

♡︎ i receive compliments on a daily basis

♡︎ when i’m out in public, pretty people ask for my number

♡︎ people drop to their knees when they witness my beauty

♡︎ i have an aura that makes people nervous

♡︎ i’m the pretty girl you see at the airport and never forget

♡︎ i can easily flirt with anyone i desire

♡︎ people are always trying to win me over

♡︎ i just happen to be everybody’s type

♡︎ people get butterflies when they’re around me

♡︎ everyone admires my beauty when i walk into a room

♡︎ people always end up falling in love with me

♡︎ i’m loved by everyone on earth

Way2Pretty Affs

♡︎ i’m pinterest girl pretty

♡︎ i only see perfection when i look at myself

♡ i love being the prettiest girl everywhere i go

︎♡︎ i look super pretty without even trying

♡︎ my favorite talent is being effortlessly pretty

♡︎ i wake up prettier than the day before

♡︎ i’ve always had my desired features

♡︎ i’ve always been the prettiest person alive

♡︎ it’s a fact that i’m beautiful inside and out

♡︎ i’m the prettiest girl anyone has ever seen

♡︎ i keep getting prettier and hotter everyday

♡︎ my beauty is so unforgettable

Self Concept Affs

♡︎ i deserve the best because i am the best

♡︎ life is literally rigged in my favor

♡︎ i’ve always been the girl that has it all

♡︎ i love being the it girl of my generation

♡︎ i’m always the universe’s top priority

♡︎ the 3D conforms my desires instantly

♡︎ i’m chased by everyone and everything

♡︎ the only validation i need is my own

A Villian Yet The Main Character

If you read Manwha you might have seen this upcoming genre where the villain is the main character, this concept is not so far from life.

You know that you are winning in life when someone sees you as the villain in their story, but you're unbothered, yet their life starts slowly to revolve around you.

How can you do it? What's the secret?

It's simple.

You need to acknowledge that you can't be liked by EVERYBODY and that some people are gonna hate you regardless of how kind you are because maybe that day you were dressed better than this particular person and now they hate you cause you took their spotlight or you have a lot of potentials and this person it's scared that you'll succeed them.

This is what happens to the villain in this story, a key component it's the ability to stand your ground and to create a staple image, that people associate with you, but in the way, I'm explaining this I doubt you will understand, so read and follow this short guide to "How To Be A Villaness Yet The Main Character"

How To Stand Your Ground

Let me get this across, I'm a people pleaser and this advice helped me personally avoid me getting exploited and bullied, say no, refuse.

If you found something rude, say it, don't let other people laugh at you, and ask them what they meant, as if you genuinely didn't understand, also this may sound random, but...don't save the contact of people you just met, by putting an emoji next to their names, I learned this on my own expense, why? They start ghosting you and acting up, and they start to disrespect you cause they exchange your initial kindness and welcome for weakness.

Stop giving attention to these people, they're the ones that if their ego it's hurt, will switch up and try to bring you back, or they'll just act like you NEVER existed.

Upgrade your roasting skill and your psychology of people and realize that you don't owe anything to people and people don't really owe you anything except if it's in a professional setting, like a project.

How To Create A Staple Image

This is a success story, people associate hats, certain hairstyles, and anything head related, same with a certain style of jeans with me, cause of the way I would own them with my styling abilities, same for how often I would wear

This starts with a shopping spree, where you buy new pieces that hug your figure, and exalted your body shape, basically hot girl shopping! Then chose what you would never leave out of your wardrobe and outfits, the more you wear it, the more people are gonna notice it, same for how apparent it is.

Conclusion

These are my advices, if you have questions you can send me a message in the dear, stargirl button, and start the message with dear, stargirl, Ill gladly answer!

also this might be the first part to a series

xoxo, Stargirl

My manifestation rules🩷🩷

Only my positive thoughts manifest

Listing to subliminals/affirming once is all I need to do for results

Short and simple🩷❤️

No, cause once I stopped giving a fuck I noticed my manifestations come faster🤷🏽‍♀️

I love seeing results instantly and having all of my desires😘😘

memories that happened in my SKZ reality that I’ll never forget (because I miss that reality so much)

One afternoon, Han, Hyunjin, and I went out to get a bubble tea. After grabbing our drinks, we decided to stop by a nearby pet store just to look around. As we walked through the different sections, we ended up in the area with cat beds. That’s when Jisung had the brilliant idea to throw himself onto one of them, making a pretty loud thud. Not even two seconds later, a security guard appeared, standing right in front of us and staring without saying a word. Jisung quickly got up, nervously laughing as he tried to fix the mess he’d made. Meanwhile, Hyunjin was almost choking on his bubble tea from laughing so hard, and eventually ran off. I just stood there in front of Jisung, not having the slightest clue how to help him. Minho, whos afraid of needles, came with me to get my tattoo and piercing. He also helped me with the aftercare. Vivienne Westwood announced me as an ambassador and the face of the brand. I was literallyyy freaking out Our first performance… we were ALL stressed and anxious, so much that I could feel my heart beating in my ears. The post-performance adrenaline really made me realize: “I did it. I’m here.” For my first Fashion Week, I went alone, and all the members sent me encouraging messages in the group chat while I was about to board the plane (I cried). I adopted a black cat that had snuck into my house, and I named her Luna <33 Minho texts me about 20 times a day just to remind me to drink water since he knows I forgot to drink it. :\

(It’s not over yet… maybe part two coming soon?)

I am so grateful to have the privilege of learning about shifting and manifestation.

top 5 shifter canon events:

have a hogwarts dr

star position, reven method and drinking liters of water

celestial subliminal

be diagnosed with mental illness from strangers on internet

long break from shifting

The moment of realization when you open your eyes for the first time in your dr is simply insane.

Happy 2025 to all shifters and manifestors!

This year will be full of success. 💜

👇🏻👇🏻

I wish you a life where all your desires and wishes always come true right away instantly

tyy u too <3

how do you get over the little voice in your head telling you "this isnt gonna work for me" or "how will i manifest more money if i dont even have a job" ect?? like i know manifestation and the law of attraction is real but i just keep doubting. ty <3

hi! the thing that has helped me a lot to not fall back into the loop of negative thoughts is to observe them but not absorb them. Or I simply affirm the opposite.

you are so POWERFUL

(from pinterest)

Remember that manifestation/shifting isn’t about affirming or visualizing and then getting your desire in the 3D world, nor about feeling happy only when you see it materialize in physical reality.

It’s like looking in the mirror and seeing your makeup smudged; instead of fixing your face, you try to clean the mirror and then feel frustrated because nothing has changed.

The goal is to assume/imagine that you already have your desire now, in the 4D. You’re happy to have your desires now, not only when appear in physical reality. The validation comes only from yourself.

By law, the 3D world will reflect your internal state.

DNI YOU ARE:

homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, Islamophobic, racist, sexist, ableist, misogynistic, invalidates a person's pronouns/gender/identity, pedophile,sexualizes minors/ppl in general, jokes about rape, Israel supporter, romanticizes eating disorders or any form of illness, anti-shifter & loass, If you are under 16 or over 30 (I feel uncomfortable), kpop anti

Don't ask me to manifest for you Don't ask me about my personal manifestations Don't spam likes or you'll be blocked

MASTERLIST

how i shift using law of assumption

how I manifest using robotic affirmations

"unrealistic" things I have manifested (p.1)

my favorite manifestation methods

i shifted in my nana dr

happy 18th birthday to me! I'm finally an adult

(18 years old physically but 26 consciously)

I shifted

I shifted to my nana dr for about six months (even though only six seconds have passed here, since I set the time so that one month in the dr equals one second in this reality). I'm still a little confused from coming back, but overall, I feel good.

This dr isn’t my main one but could become my main one. Before I share some details, I want to clarify that this DR doesn't follow the anime’s storyline. For example, that asshole Takumi will never meet Hachi. I'll try to keep it brief, as I don't like talking too much about my dr after all, it is real life .

I live about 15 minutes away from Hachi and Nana’s apartment, in a suburb of Tokyo. I work at a bakery and also do art. Living in Tokyo between 1998 and 1999 is a mix of nostalgia and surreal. It's hard to describe precisely. I’ve also learned to live without modern smartphones, using those old brick phones with buttons instead. This has taught me to live more in the moment, without the constant need to check social media or waste hours scrolling through TikTok, aimlessly losing time.

In this dr, I’m learning to be more independent. Thanks also to my experiences in my Kpop drs, I've learned to manage an apartment on my own here: I do the laundry, cook, manage my budget, pay bills, and work in the bakery. Oh, and I'm also studying to get my driver's license.

I’ve also started learning to play the guitar, especially thanks to Nana. Playing has always been a huge dream of mine, but I never had the chance to do it in this reality. Once, I even got emotional with joy while holding the guitar in my hands, because it’s something I’ve always loved doing.

My relationship with Hachi and Nana is really great.

Hachi is very close to me; she often texts to ask how I’m doing, how work is going, and invites me to hang out on weekends or go to the pub together. I love going out with her because she’s unashamed of anything or anyone, and with her, I never feel judged. She also has a great sense of style. Even though colorful clothes aren’t really my thing, she’s helped me find a style that suits me. I must admit, though, that she requires a lot of patience since she’s a bit naive.

As for Nana Osaki, I really love her a lot. She’s given me so much advice on some of my personal concerns, and she’s the kind of person who could listen to you for hours. She shows her affection through sarcastic jokes. We share the same taste in music. It took a little while for her to fully trust me and start confiding in me, but I understand her, and our bond has grown over time.

I’m still getting to know Shin and Nobu. Shin is very reserved, but I feel like we’ll become great friends. Nobu, on the other hand, has already opened up, and we’ve quickly become close.

Next time I shift, I’ll come back with a suitcase full of Vivienne Westwood clothes, necklaces, and rings!

every time I had an instant manifestation (literally within seconds) was when I decided on something and then detached from it without any doubts or negative thoughts.

I mean, I didn't detach in the sense of 'I don't want it anymore,' but rather, I didn't think about it too much because it's already mine, it's already in my 4D reality, it's already done.

how I shift reality using the law of assumption ✧⁠*⁠。

first of all, I have the assumption that I just say "I'll wake up in my xxx dr" and then go straight to sleep to shift. I don't want to make shifting too complicated.

how I shift

I choose my dr

before going to sleep I affirm that I will wake up in my dr

I sleep

and boom I wake up in my dr!

I literally affirming for two days : " I'm the luckiest girl in the world" and this is what happened:

the math test was suspended twice

the teacher questioned me on a book that I haven't read and I got a 90/100

I found €50 on the floor

my friends offered me a snack/breakfast

an important task has been cancelled

i accidentally shifted in my kpop dr 🫶

My favorite manifestation methods

placebo effect

I use this technique to manifest something physical, like every time I drink water, my hair gets longer.

pinterest board

I create a folder where I insert images related to my manifestations and repeat, "I have everything I have in my Pinterest board"

subliminal

I love subliminals. I'm very lazy and easily distracted while affirming, or I don't find physical time to do it. So, when I'm doing homework or while I'm walking, I listen to my subliminals.

"Unrealistic" things I have manifested (p.1)

Finding the house keys

Often, I have the habit of leaving my house keys in the pocket of my jacket. One morning, while I was heading to school, I noticed they were missing. Despite searching around and retracing my steps, I couldn't find them. While on the bus, I kept affirming to myself, 'My keys have always been with me,' envisioning myself holding them. After enduring six anxious hours at school, I returned home to find my house keys just a few meters away. I had even inspected that place before and hadn't seen them.

Airpods repaired

I have an unhealthy obsession with music, so being without headphones is like being without oxygen for a minute, lol. One evening, my right AirPod stopped working, and I tried everything to fix it, but it showed no signs of life. So, before going to bed, I repeated affirmation that my AirPods were perfectly functional. The next day, I woke up, and it still wasn't working... but I persisted in in my affirmation and after an hour my airpods started working perfectly again.

dyscalculia gone

For my entire life, I was told I was terrible at math. Indeed, I always scored 30/100 on all my school tests, and I literally didn't understand anything. I was also "diagnosed" with dyscalculia lol. One day, tired of not understanding anything, I started behaving as if I were the best at math, affirming things like math is simple to understand, to execute, and it's the most fun thing to do because it's so easy. Needless to say, my school average of 30/100 became 90/100 :)

I saw this video, lol. (screenshot not mine)

Firstly, it's completely wrong to get information from platforms like TikTok, where there's a lot of misinformation and a wrong conception of shifting. Shifting didn't start existing in 2020 and wasn't invented by teenagers. I've read many comments about mental illnesses like maladaptive daydreaming, but I have to clarify that I, someone who has shifted and maladaptive daydreamer, can testify it's completely different. So, please, don't let yourselves be influenced by these "antishifters".

Many don't understand that if you assume shifting is hard, it will be hard . If you assume shifting is easy, it will be easy. That's all.

"They don't do storytimes about their drs! They're definitely lying about shifting!"

It's annoying to read it every time someone claims to have shifted but doesn't want to share their experiences.

You can't expect someone to necessarily tell you what happened in their reality, especially if you're a stranger. It's like if I asked you to talk about private matters in your cr, how would you respond?