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A Villian Yet The Main Character

If you read Manwha you might have seen this upcoming genre where the villain is the main character, this concept is not so far from life.

You know that you are winning in life when someone sees you as the villain in their story, but you're unbothered, yet their life starts slowly to revolve around you.

How can you do it? What's the secret?

It's simple.

You need to acknowledge that you can't be liked by EVERYBODY and that some people are gonna hate you regardless of how kind you are because maybe that day you were dressed better than this particular person and now they hate you cause you took their spotlight or you have a lot of potentials and this person it's scared that you'll succeed them.

This is what happens to the villain in this story, a key component it's the ability to stand your ground and to create a staple image, that people associate with you, but in the way, I'm explaining this I doubt you will understand, so read and follow this short guide to "How To Be A Villaness Yet The Main Character"

How To Stand Your Ground

Let me get this across, I'm a people pleaser and this advice helped me personally avoid me getting exploited and bullied, say no, refuse.

If you found something rude, say it, don't let other people laugh at you, and ask them what they meant, as if you genuinely didn't understand, also this may sound random, but...don't save the contact of people you just met, by putting an emoji next to their names, I learned this on my own expense, why? They start ghosting you and acting up, and they start to disrespect you cause they exchange your initial kindness and welcome for weakness.

Stop giving attention to these people, they're the ones that if their ego it's hurt, will switch up and try to bring you back, or they'll just act like you NEVER existed.

Upgrade your roasting skill and your psychology of people and realize that you don't owe anything to people and people don't really owe you anything except if it's in a professional setting, like a project.

How To Create A Staple Image

This is a success story, people associate hats, certain hairstyles, and anything head related, same with a certain style of jeans with me, cause of the way I would own them with my styling abilities, same for how often I would wear

This starts with a shopping spree, where you buy new pieces that hug your figure, and exalted your body shape, basically hot girl shopping! Then chose what you would never leave out of your wardrobe and outfits, the more you wear it, the more people are gonna notice it, same for how apparent it is.

Conclusion

These are my advices, if you have questions you can send me a message in the dear, stargirl button, and start the message with dear, stargirl, Ill gladly answer!

also this might be the first part to a series

xoxo, Stargirl