Punishment With Silence - Blog Posts

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Punishment with silence

He doesn't reply to messages. He pretends not to hear you. He is silent, although he knows you are waiting for a word.

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This is not ordinary silence. This is not a need for solitude. This is not a moment to think.

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This is a weapon. Precise and aimed straight at you. Causing pain without leaving a mark. Hurting without touching. Punishment with silence. A sophisticated method of control. A way to break your spirit. A technique that makes you beg for attention.

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And this person? They are just waiting. Waiting for you to break. Waiting for you to be ready for anything. Waiting for you to understand "your guilt".

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This is not love. This is not care. This is not even a bad mood. This is emotional abuse. Silent. Subtle. Devastating. No shouting. No hitting. No brawls. And yet it leaves scars on the soul.

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You need to know this: Real partners talk. Real friends explain. Real loved ones do not use silence as punishment. You are not guilty of someone else's silence. You are not responsible for someone else's game. You don't have to beg for the attention of someone who deliberately ignores you.

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You deserve a relationship based on respect. You deserve a relationship in which silence is peace, not a weapon. You deserve someone who sees you as a human being even in conflict.

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Remember: Silence is golden only when someone does not use it as a weapon.

~ R. Wicijowski