i enter pinterest on a mission to work on my dr’s boards but i always end up getting completely distracted by pictures of my s/o’s instead..
how to banish resistance effectively , resistance is not some grand cosmic force, sadly, it’s a habit. so stop. here’s how.
you are not your thoughts. they are not a mirror, not a diagnosis, not proof of failure. they’re just noise. when your brain spits out, 'this isn’t working,' don’t argue, don’t spiral, don’t even take it seriously. let it sit there. watch it fade. because it will. so stop identifying with intrusive thoughts.
resistance only survives if you start negotiating with it. the second you start dissecting a doubt, you’re trapped in its logic. don’t play along. when you get a thought like 'what if this isn’t working?,' just let it sit there unanswered, like an awkward question in a conversation you’ve already checked out of. give it nothing to work with.
resistance is only as powerful as the attention you give it. redirect your thoughts. immediately. to anything. every time doubt creeps in, think of something else. return to your assumption, your end goal, your desired reality. do it without hesitation. "but what if. ." no. "but i don’t feel. . .," don’t let resistance become the main thing. replace it, move on.
people act like doubt means something. it doesn’t. it’s just a feeling. a chemical reaction in your brain that passes, like hunger, like tiredness, like any other mood. let it exist without letting it define anything. don’t resist it, don’t analyse it. just let it float by like a passing car outside your window. not your car, not your problem. make peace with discomfort.
assume your power. resistance is a relic of a mindset that no longer serves you. you don’t have to fight it, you don’t have to fix it. you just have to stop believing in it. act like someone who already has what they want, and let resistance dissolve into irrelevance. it was never real to begin with.
stop treating resistance like an enemy to be defeated. it’s not a force, it’s a habit. and habits break the moment you stop giving them power.
75 Hard LOA Challenge for people wanting their desire/dr.
75 Hard loa rules
1. Embody Your DR Self Daily:
• Spend 10-20 minutes visualizing yourself in your DR. Imagine how it feels, what you see, and how you think. Fully embody that state during this time.
• Live your day as if you’re already your DR self. Make decisions, react, and think from that perspective.
2. Affirmations Practice:
• Repeat affirmations that align with your DR (e.g., “I am already in my DR” or “Shifting is natural and effortless for me”). Do this 2-3 times a day or whenever doubts arise.
3. Mental Diet:
• Monitor your thoughts. Anytime you notice doubts, fears, or negative assumptions, consciously replace them with positive affirmations or empowering beliefs. Delete social media if you need to.
4. Gratitude Practice:
• Write down or mentally list 3-5 things you’re grateful for in your DR every day. Gratitude aligns your energy with abundance and fulfillment.
5. Daily Study:
• Find successful shifting/manifest stories. Focus on that feeling of motivation and joy and knowing you’re in your dr.
6. Visualization Before Bed:
• Before sleeping, imagine waking up in your DR. Feel the joy and ease of already being there. Drift off with that feeling.
8. Stay Consistent for 75 Days:
• No skipping, doubting, or breaking the rules. If you miss a day, start over at Day 1.
had a dream i was dating TOP from bigbang...am i supposed to know what that means...
The Shiftblr Anti-Terf Blocklist
After expanding the original post to be far longer than intended (courtesy of me forgetting a break), I received some assistance from the ever so wonderful @sheeezu whom took time out to dig around in the trash, a.k.a @/CuttingCherub's follower list. Every @ you see here is pro-TERF, and that is unacceptable in our community. This is a safe space for ALL, except those who wish harm upon people solely asking to exist in peace. You are not welcome here.
On a lighter note, I began donating $5 to trans charities for each terf comment/ask I saw, in the name of the account spreading the hate. So far, the terfs of Shiftblr have raised $60 USD for Trans Lifeline! 🤗 So! Either they get the picture and go back into hiding, or they continue to help trans people in the way that arguably matters most in this world. So please, don't be afraid to reach out if you've been getting harassed by these scumbags. I highly encourage you to share any accounts you have encountered in the replies. Now that there's a condensed list, without the showcase of SS taking up space, it'll be much more convenient to add onto.
Remember, trans friends: You are valid, you are valuable and you are loved. 💕
if you've ever interacted with any of my posts theres a 99% chance I've stalked your account
Desire is a memory.
You're never desperate for anything, desperation is fulfillment in disguise. You know how good it'd feel to have it because you do. You're mistaking having for wanting. You have it in the 4D.
You want your desired life or reality because you've been there. You want to be beautiful because deep down thats what you know you are.
Desire is a memory. You want it because you have it. Trust the 4D.
hes so beautiful i need to DEVOUR him
does it ever get better? has it gotten better? will it get better? when will it get better?
so here’s why i personally didn't like *and* left shifttok. the thing is. it’s not that it’s inherently bad, it’s just… sort of missing the point. like, wasn’t the whole goal to shift? to get out, to go somewhere else, to slip through the cracks of reality like a goddamn pro? but somewhere along the way, it turned into a glorified pinterest board. edits on edits on edits. wattpad drabbles disguised as scripts. playlists that are less about actually shifting and more about curating an aesthetic, a moodboard, a vibe. and suddenly, you’re not shifting, you’re just making content about shifting.
like, i get it. romanticising your dr is half the fun. i did and still do it myself !! who doesn’t want to bask in the idea of their perfect world? but when that becomes the main event, when it overtakes the actual act of shifting, what are we even doing here? it’s like planning a trip, making all the itineraries, buying cute outfits, but then never getting on the plane. just sitting in your room, looking at your suitcase, rewatching your own tiktoks about how fun the trip is gonna be. that’s what shifttok became. this endless loop of people hyping up their drs but not actually going to them.
and maybe that’s the problem. because if you spend too much time making your dr look good instead of actually experiencing it, you start treating it like fiction. like something separate from you, instead of something you’re literally living. people started making edits of their drs like they were making fandom edits of a tv show. like, is this a real place you’re shifting to or is it just your latest hyperfixation? be honest. you spend so much time cooped up on video star or capcut and suddenly you don't remember the last time you affirmed or even thought about shifting.
and i’m not saying you can’t have fun with it. obviously, dream up the most insane, gorgeous, cinematic dr possible. but at some point, you have to ask yourself: am i actually trying to shift? or am i just roleplaying the idea of shifting? because shifttok is great at making shifting look cool. but the second you start seeing your dr as something to be consumed rather than something to be lived, you’ve already lost the plot.
so yeah. i left, and as soon as i did, i started actually shifting. because i actually wanted to do it. not just make a trailer for a movie i’m never gonna watch. does this make sense?????