Not That Kind Of Girl

Not That Kind Of Girl

Not that kind of girl <3

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1 year ago
Twitter Historically Sucks But Man This Is A Banger Of A Tweet

twitter historically sucks but man this is a banger of a tweet

1 month ago

“I want to decompose in a bog” well you clearly don’t know the first thing about bogs. Clout chaser

3 weeks ago

One of the big differences is that Miku and other vocaloids aren't trying to sound like something else. They are Miku (or whatever other vocaloid). In the same way that getting your icon's guitar pedal and playing a guitar doesn't mean you're stealing their identity or music unless you play their stuff and call it your own.

Why are people so lax about AI voices, it's honestly way scarier to me than AI art


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1 year ago

CW: Death, Cheating, Grief, Mourning

I'm going to talk to the void cause shit happened among my community and I'm processing (if you know the people in the story, no you don't).

There's a unique parallel between death and the end of a relationship especially when felt in communities. Obviously both are the end of something, but there's more to it. Both are mourned under the conditions of their ending, murder victims are mourned far different than people who pass in their sleep after saying goodbye. Likewise I think that relationships are often mourned the same way.

This becomes especially poignant when it comes to relationships that die by cheating. These relationships ended by the greatest betrayal of hearts that a human can endure, and importantly revolve around the taking of consent. In these instances consent between partners is on the "contract" of being in a relationship. When you have those agreements which you promised to live by there is no guarantee other than trust that it will be upheld. This is why relationships are often scary but rewarding, it's scary to take a leap of faith like that but also deeply rewarding to trust someone that deeply. And when that trust is broken with cheating it breaks that trust and deals a mortal wound to a relationship.

Okay, so how does this relate to murder victims? When a person dies in that way they are denied agency, consent, and the ability to die on their own terms. When these things happen without someone doing this it's a tragedy and hurts more than a peaceful passing but there's extra pain when someone causes that loss.

The reason is trust, when you exist in a community there is a set of agreed upon rules that almost always include not to kill each other, it's about the most universal rule out there. The trust is what gets violated so that not only is a person gone but a deep and fundamental trust is broken. This is why I feel these types of mourning are similar.

The point to making this comparison is this, murders are felt among the whole community. They are mourned with the whole community. When people in your community experience cheating, support them and help them mourn just as you would a person lost because often times they lost the person most dear to them in the process.


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1 year ago

Me: mods can we ban this person?

The angel and devil on my shoulders: and we're supposed to do this how???

me: chat what do we think

the angel and devil on my shoulders: can you not call us that please


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1 year ago
She-Ra And Catra By Vero (TheArtofVero)

She-Ra and Catra by Vero (TheArtofVero)


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1 month ago

Have you considered that I'm a swamp creature and I love the soupy air huh???

We should make it illegal for it to be humid


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2 years ago
Only Just Found Out...

Only just found out...

R.I.P. D.H Peligro (drummer of Dead Kennedys) 🕊

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