Singlets will think having headmates is this horrible thing or whatever but really the worst part is when you don't hear from them
I feel like its ok to only share the fun side of ur system if thats what u all comfortable with.
Seriously, not everyone wants to show and share their negative side system stuff with others. Us as an example, we don’t even share our name or anything in here bc its dangerous for us. Not to mention sharing the things we been personal gone through, which may use to harm us later.
But its also very brave and nice that some people willing to share they own personal experience to others! Thats very cool!!! <3
we've figured ourselves out a bunch more now and realized that our MDD was 100% bleeding into our system knowledge. basically starting our knowledge of our system back to 0 with an open mind while keeping our MDD in mind as we rediscover everything again.
An alter who's role is to protect the body from pain, typically by fronting to endure or relieve the pain themself; A combination of a protector and a pain holder. Flag base by @/gorefix
F2U -> credit is appreciated but not required!
"Source trauma" and "exo trauma" is real btw.
You can have trauma from something that didn't actually happen because trauma is a reaction to a distressing event, regardless of the actual event happened. Both are comparable to real trauma, so for the love of god stop acting like introjects can't be traumatized from source.
Fictional introjects can be IN their source, they can come from their source. They are no different from other alters.
They can have real experiences as being that character because they're can be that character and if they genuinely believe they do/are, that's not a bad thing and whether source separation is needed, the alter will come to their own conclusion some day.
*no other system has fictives it
🌕 - If Your System Has A Name, What Is The Story Behind It?
🌔 - Do you Have Any Nonhuman Or Human Adjacent Headmates? Any That Are A Unique/Non-Typical Species?
🌓 - What Is The Most Unique Name A Headmate In Your System Has?
🌑- Does Anyone In Your System Have Food Preferences That Differ Greatly From Others In Your System?
⭐️ - Who Is The Most Social?
💫 - Does Anyone Celebrate A Birthday Different From The Body's Birthday?
✨️ - Who Is The "Problem Child" Of Your System? (Not Necessarily In A Negative Way)
🔭 - Anyone With A "Non-Typical" Role?
🚀 - Are There Any Headmates With Wildly Differing Interests From The Rest Of The System?
☄️ - Do You Have Any Alt Headmates? (Emo,Goth,Etc)
🌍 - Do You Have Any Introjects From Obscure Sources? (Not Including Oc-tives)
🪐 - What Is The Age Of Your Oldest Headmate? The Youngest?
🌙 - What Is The Most Ridiculous Thing Your System Has Argued Over?
👽 - The Strangest,Most Off Putting,Or Silliest Thing A Headmate Has Said?
🌌 - Is There A Headmate Who Likes To Play Pranks On The Rest Of The System?
🌠 - Who Is The Most Noticeable When Fronting?
🛰 - What Is The Strangest Way You've Discovered A Headmate?
🌝 - What Is The Strangest Purchase Someone In The System Has Made?
shoutout to introjects who are so far from their source that they’re barely recognizable. you do not owe anyone “canon-like behavior”
I somehow managed to sit here and play Monster Hunter for almost 6 hours straight. While yeah that's kind of a big chunk of time and can't happen all the time, this is also good for us because we've been really trying to work on our attention span so we don't need to either do 3 things at once or change tasks every 20 minutes. We've previously been known to barely be able to sit through a single episode of any TV show because we just bounce all over the place mentally and our ADHD runs rampant. Fine for some people, but we'd like to work on it so we can... Enjoy media at all.
But we did so much today and I didn't really do anything else. No fidgeting, no side-project, just fighting things in a videogame. So I count this as a win. Autism beats ADHD in a fight to the death. And I beat monsters with my god damn dual blades. It all works out.
THE PLURAL COMMUNITY NEEDS TO FIGURE OUT THAT PRYING ABOUT PEOPLES TRAUMA MAKES YOU A FUCKING BITCH. PEOPLE LOVE TO GET UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL. FUCKING TRY IT, I BITE
Not super active because plural communities intimidate me (the host, Jay) but trying to be more open so I don’t suppress things Again. No clue how my system formed, but I’m definitely endo supportive.
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