Okay So Once I Was Basically Tricked Into Saying I’d Out With A Friend, And Since I Didn’t Know How

Okay so once I was basically tricked into saying I’d out with a friend, and since I didn’t know how to break it off with him (because I have 2 different anxiety disorders and this was the first time I had been asked out) I just canceled with out explanation, and ghosted him. Afterwards I had several panic attacks, I was worried he would try to confront me at work or that he would call me out in public. My anxiety was so bad I rearranged my school schedule so that I wouldn’t share any classes with him.

And when I mentioned what happened to my sister she just said “Well you could have at least given him a chance.” It only made me feel worse. I wasn’t looking for any relationship, and when my friend asked if we could ‘hang out’ over the summer I was fine. But when he asked me on a double date with two people I didn’t know I had to end it.

Women don’t like rejecting people, but we also don’t like being pressured into relationships. My mental health comes before your ego.

“why dont you just give him a chance”

idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested

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Please understand that you can open up, some people may not understand, but others will. Others care, others love you, please open up don’t keep it locked away.

Take care of your needs.

wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims


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As someone who uses fandoms as a coping mechanism, this is unacceptable behavior. You know that when you re blog the op gets a notification. Not everyone wants to get your nsfw fanfic in their notifications. There are safe spaces for creating such content, the reboots of a person post about their own life is not it.

Please use the proper spaces for fandom content. It’s literally so easy to not make unsuspecting people uncomfortable.

some of you are so entrenched in fandom that it’s genuinely damaged the way you even casually interact with others, especially strangers

like i need you to understand how incredibly inappropriate and abnormal it is for your immediate reaction to someone’s personal post to be “i should tag this and make it about my OTPs and headcanons” or “this is a fanfiction prompt”


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Why do people listen to the advice of those wannabe ‘writers’. I mean they are not even published? 

Im froyo in a cup

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Everyone!! After Years And Years, Paint Tool SAI Is Finally Getting An Upgrade! Go Try The Paint Tool

Everyone!! After years and years, Paint Tool SAI is finally getting an upgrade! Go try the Paint Tool SAI 2 beta! 

Just a few of the new features:

64 bit/multi-core support

Font tool with text layers

Bigger canvases! Up to 100,000 x 100,000px canvas size for 64 bit

Bigger max brush size (up to 5000px)

Circle and line rulers

Perspective ruler (guide lines for 1 - 3 point perspective)

Select/edit multiple layers at once

Upgrade for free if you already have a SAI 1 license

Paint Tool SAI is my number one recommended art program for digital painters and this just makes it even better! The new font tool and canvas size limits, especially, should make it so much easier for people trying to make comics.

This is still in beta, so it’s untranslated and has some bugs. But it’s still great news! Go try it out!


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They look so feirce

Representation Matters ✊🏾
Representation Matters ✊🏾

Representation Matters ✊🏾

Oh my gosh, I don’t follow them but up until now all I’ve seen about them were fans talking about how cute they are. Please don’t let people ignore this!

im convinced bts isnt a real group bc nobody can be this racist right. right

How to help Sudan: 7 things you can do right now for a country in crisis

Call your member of Congress. Call 202-224-3121. State your zip code. When connected, tell them you support helping the people of Sudan or send them George Clooney’s essay.

Use ResistBot to text your members of Congress. Text RESIST to 50409 and it will help you contact your elected officials and tell them to help the people of Sudan.

Give to UNICEF, which is working to help the children displaced by the conflict. Donate here

Donate to Save the Children, which has been working in Sudan since 1984. Donate here. If you prefer the International Rescue Committee, it has been in Sudan since 1989 fighting malnutrition and helping displaced families. Donate here

This Facebook campaign aims to raise funds for food and medicine for those in Sudan. Donate here  

Sign this Change.org petition demanding that “The UN must investigate the 3rd of June human rights violations in Sudan by the Military.” Sign here

This GoFundMe campaign out of the U.K. claims to be working with a Sudanese group to bring emergency medical aid to Sudan. Donate here. This GoFundMe campaign is dedicated to providing medical support for the group of non-violent protesters waging a sit-in. Donate here

How To Help Sudan: 7 Things You Can Do Right Now For A Country In Crisis

Spreading information is a big part of activism too! These are our brother and sisters who are worth being seen and heard

There is still a ways to go but I am proud of the progress we’ve made

So 1/3 Of The Country. That’s Insane. 

So 1/3 of the country. That’s insane. 

HELLO AUTISM COMMUNITY!

I’m sorry, but I’ve gotta rant. The other day I was in New York, and I saw this billboard:

HELLO AUTISM COMMUNITY!

Look a little closer:

HELLO AUTISM COMMUNITY!

Yep, you’re seeing this right. Autism Speaks. On a billboard with Julia. Sesame Street has joined forces with our “pals” (and by pals I mean enemies that we wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole) over at Autism Speaks. Julia, a character who has been embraced and loved by the autism community, is now the face of Autism Speaks, an organization that has hurt our community more than it has helped. I am heartbroken. This character has made me, as an autistic person, so happy and gave me hope that autism is starting to become more accepted by society. And although I don’t speak for everyone in the autism community, I know that there are many people who felt the same way. But now that this character is the face of an ableist movement which pushes the idea that autism is a disease in need of a cure, that hope is gone. PLEASE reblog this to get the word out, whether you’re on the autism spectrum or not.

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