i feel so left out. like everyone around me knows how to be a human and i don’t.
[plain text: Plural positivity cus we felt like it!!]
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you're traumagenic/disordered and support endos
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you're mixed origins
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you're endogenic
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you're blurry all the time
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you don't have a headspace
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you're frontstuck
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you consider yourself one due to imaginary friends/imagis
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you have "too high" of a headcount
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you have "too low" of a headcount
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you only have non-human headmates
You're still a real system/plural/etc. if you only have human headmates
You're still a real system/plural/etc. No matter what anyone tells you!
[Plaintext: You're still a real system/plural/etc. No matter what anyone tells you!]
proxy median system host culture Imposter Syndrome Blast 1000. because of the curses (being in the front forever and the others have to talk through you and sometimes it just. fucking feels like roleplaying because it doesnt really feel like anyone else is in front With me but i know theyre Somewhere There). you understand -💤
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Its like, people can ask me "why do you like this flat, two-dimensional, obnoxious fictional character and read into them a complex and nuanced inner life, and not this other flat, two dimensional, obnoxious fictional character?"
But all I can respond is that one of them I know personally and understand as a fellow being with a rich inner life and many positive qualities, and the other is just a flat, two dimensional, obnoxious fictional character to me. 🤷
i may be a wolf but i will still meow at you
soulbounding culture is loving your Soulbounds to life again
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shoutout to systems that formed because of loneliness. you’re 100% valid, and your existence is not harming other plurals.
when ur sysmates are watching your daydreams in the background and you finally notice them;
here's your daily reminder that no-one is entitled to any information about you, your system, or your system members; nor do you have to use any terms you don't want to no matter how popular they are ^-^
Hey. I'm a singlet and I honestly don't follow syscourse a lot because I am not directly affected by it and my NPD makes me stay away from things that don't affect me but I saw that there were many singlets that had a stance and most of them are anti endo and I am like... Wtf? Sib, you ain't no damn system. It's like if a non lgbtq+ person had an opinion on queer discourse NO. The only thing you should be doing and saying is: I don't know but I think that anyone should be cared for and have rights and shits. That ain't that goddamn hard.
Sorry if I sound a bit aggressive, my tone is meant to be rather neutral. (Quick note because I think it matters, use it or he when talking about me in third person.).
Some people just are looking for groups to hate. It's as simple as that.
I think that there is a more generalized pluralophobia behind it!
That there are some singlets who are only capable of "caring" about systems if they can feel superior. They will accept systems as long as those systems accept that they are inferior to the singlet majority.
Those are the vibes that I get from a lot of singlet sysmeds.
It's a very conditional sort of acceptance casting systems as broken things that need to be fixed.
The moment they encounter a system who says "we didn't have trauma and our lives are perfectly fine and happy because we are together," That's now something that is a threat to established norms. It's a threat to singlet-normatism.
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