Lost Focus And Had A Consensual Workplace Relationship

guys we need actual friends

any volunteers?

ME TRYING TO WRITE A CHRONICALLY ILL TIM DRAKE FANFIC WHERE HE HAS THE SAME ISSUES AS ME ONLY TO BE STOPPED BY MY ISSUES

like damn my joints said nope no more typing on the computer

so update on the asking steven out thing

i may have texted our friend about it then steven switched in and found out so im going to try and have a date with him later today to make up for not getting to properly ask

also i bought him a tea yesterday and he loved it

-marc

im going to turn this isnt a love advice blog.

-l.w.

“just eat your lover’s lung so that you can say you really took their breath away”

To be systempunk is to be critical of misinformation even in our own community, so I'll post my own two cents: hot take that should be "hot" as lukewarm water, but sysmeds don't exist.

"Sysmeds" are just people with DID/OSDD. In order to develop DID/OSDD you need to have experienced repetitive childhood trauma while on a certain age rage, be predisposed to dissociation as a coping mechanism and on top of all of that to be disconnected (this term can mean emotionally and/or physically) from your primary caregivers. If you haven't met any of the many levels of those criterias and you still claim to be a system, then you are not. This is a traumagenic disorder that has many comorbidities with other disorders, such as C-PTSD.

I do not care one bit if this post will send so called mixed origins "systems" down a spiral, do us a favour and stop with the blatant bastardization of terms related to actual medical misinformation such as transmedicalism. - 🏹🌿

Day One-"Getting Used To Your Silence"

Cassandra Cain Angst to start Bat-tober off :P

She’s a weapon. She has no need for words. She only exists to follow commands.

Cassandra has no need for words when she’s on the streets, flitting between shadow and shadow, surviving however she can.

Cassandra had no need for words when she was a child. Why would she need them now? She has no need for them. They are a waste of her capabilities.

So why does everyone seem to want her to try and speak?

guess who's celebrating october by writing a batfamily angst fic everyday

this guy 😎

dude i already know your take

its not like ive been disagreeing with you without looking at your page

we're obviously not going to agree on this topic. i honestly think i see it a certain way and that i see it like that due to my autism and can't wrap my head around any other way due to that. its chill that you cant see it the same way i can due to not having the right vocabulary to describe my opinion properly.

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?

NPD culture is thinking you're better than people who are mean because I'm mean inside, I don't say it out loud, I'm smart enough to know better than to do that, I'm smart enough to know how to be mean but keep playing nice to keep their attention, I'm smart enough to know how to pretend to be a nice person

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uggg i was so excited to watch the second episode of moon knight today but i havent been able to sit still focusing on anything for longer than five minutes and im actually upset about this

man i just wanted to watch it but nooooo attention span went out the freaking window

-sully

MEET NEOGLOWRATZ

•21

•he/they/it/rat/ze

•DID, NPD, ADHD, ASD, OCD, Bipolar, GERD, EDS, Gastroparesis, POTS, MCAS, Scoliosis

•This is my chaos blog, kinda just post whatever on here

•We have a seperate blog for our littles and a few other specific alter blogs (not willing to share them on this account)

Our ao3 account is A2idB1u3

Fandoms we write for:

•Marauders

•Spiderman/MCU/Team Red

•Batfam

•Creepypasta/Slendervers

•Teenwolf

•Six of Crows/Shadow and Bone

•The Pitt