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here’s to the people who didn’t stay soft throughout trauma…

who felt like the only way to survive your trauma was to toughen up. who’ve gotten more critical, closed off, and mistrusting. who never felt like it was safe to stay soft, and so you didn’t. who willingly or unwillingly changed into armour. who, even though your world is safe again, you still stay tough. who have to stay tough, ‘cause maybe your world is still unsafe. who have been stereotyped as tough and decided to say fuck it and be it. who have been coddled so much you feel you have to prove your strength. who have been neglected and abandoned, so strength was the only option. who is just not really a soft person to begin with. who live, breathe, and thrive better when tough. who doesn’t dare to open your heart or home again. who doesn’t dare to ever give up. who never tell anyone how much you cry when alone. who doesn’t tell anyone how much you long for long hugs. who can’t stand being touched. who’ve decided to live your life solo. who have a spouse, kids, pets, and family dinners.

to all my fellow tough cookies out there

who knows that tough doesn’t equal mean, malicious, or selfish. who knows that tough doesn’t mean a lack of emotions and empathy. who knows that tough doesn’t mean never scared and soft doesn’t mean always scared. who treasures our soft friends and their different kind of strength. who knows that survival through trauma comes in many forms and shapes. who knows that a tough mind and a tough body can house a soft heart.

Husky getting nervous at his first swimming lesson

bro thay put transgender in me

received this incomprehensible email from my ornithology professor

gentle reminder that it’s okay if you’re still healing from things from a long time ago. it’s okay to take your time. Healing is hard and I’m proud of you.

Mushrooms:OO

Mushroom Lamps // The Snowmade on Etsy

made a crab out of paper,, life is good

Accessibility is talked about like it’s only something disabled people need, like it’s an inconvenience or it’s something that goes above and beyond what the average person would expect. But abled people get their accessibility needs met without a thought. They get lights bright enough to see by, stairs, doors wide enough to fit through, chairs at the level they like, and all sorts of other things that are tailor-made just for them.

Abled people do have accessibility needs. The only difference is that abled people are granted access automatically and disabled people have to fight for that same privilege.

cooking while chronically ill

baking with arthritis or other chronic hand pain

living with chronic migraines

adhd meal plan

chronic pain tips

getting yourself to eat

🐌 Snail wants to remind you:

It's okay to take your time, you'll still reach your goals. Comparing your success to others can make you feel like you need to rush but your value is the same even if people are ahead of you.

Photo Credit: Myself @the-witchy-gemini

I told you Peter...you can't handle they/them pussy

TITS BACK ON TUMBLR???

DON’T MIND IF I DO!!!

#POST TITS

ghostgirl gf who tries to give you a kiss but keeps accidentally possessing you in the process

open up i am going to save you from that thing in your mouth

today i’m serving.. COWS 🐮 they are one of my favorite animals! tell me which plushies are your favorites 🤍 mine are the 1st and the 6th little one :)

before you make fun of a person doing something brave and vulnerable like dancing or singing or reading poetry in front of a lot of people:

don’t.

Fuwa-Fuwa Mos-chan Shiromo Silkworm Moth (amufun september 2022)

I had to spell it ass bagit>:]] hehehehehehehe

@imanonandawkward @mars-ray

NOOOOOOOO😭😭😭😭 WHYYYY BAGIT🥖

@imanonandawkward @mars-ray

OHGOD STOP EXPOSING ME😭😭 LOOK I DONT KNOW HOW TIME WORKSA ANS TIME IS HAY

@imanonandawkward @mars-ray

This is how I decided to come out as non binary btw

Ok I will anonymous say Ur blog is great and so is your energy and you'll never guess my blog cuz we never talked AHAHA!-

AWWWW, I WISH TO KNOWWW WHO IT ISSSS, and awww thank you!!!:DD

I love em

Nature Fact of the Day

There is a disease that affects isopods (also known as woodlouse or roly-poly) called isopod iridovirus that turns them bright iridescent blue.

Awk thank you and could I eat your soul as a thank you and I appreciate you?👁

Seconds Apart on instagram  

Autumn leaf origami birds by Inori.