“But Investing Is Hard! But I Do Not Want To Break Up, Because Then I’ll Be Alone! But Learning Is

Some of you think way too much. You should be worried about who you are becoming rather than who you were. Nobody cares and nobody remembers, but you.

Your mental health is not your identity. There’s so much to you than all the labels you want to place on yourself. Allow yourself to live and to be! Develop your resilience. Expand your life and your views. Live!

Unpopular opinion, but the moment I stopped listening to videos from self improvement channels like TheWizardLiz or Simonesquared is the moment I started improving.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with them, as I find some of their advices truly helpful, but consuming their media equals to trying to search to further “how to do x, y, z”, when in reality you are once again stopping yourself from doing better (or something at all).

Curate everything.

Curate your hygiene routine, curate your clothing items, curate your home, curate your habits, curate your nutrition, curate your environment, curate your circles, curate you socials, curate the content you consume, curate your social skills, curate your financial situation, curate your emotions, curate the version of you that shows up in public, curate your hobbies, curate your knowledge.

Stop sharing your goals, vision boards, new year resolutions with the public. Share the results and the accomplishments only.

Rejection is redirection, not rout.

Do not fool yourself into believing that cutting ties with people who do not meet your criteria of living is a selfish performance.

To create an environment in which you can thrive is to curate the environment you are living in.

The people you surround yourself with are most likely to shape your future, and that is a fact: colliding mindsets and opinions are normal, but staying because you fear to lose somebody is not.

Choose the people who surround you wisely, and never feel ashamed to do so. Your peace is your priority.

me when i do things that feel inconsequential and small to improve my life even though it feels hopelessly fucked beyond repair because for me giving up is way harder than trying but they actually work and my life slowly and surely gets better and i reap the delayed but plentiful rewards of my choices and i realize that a better life is built by making thousands of these little choices especially when it feels like they don’t matter

My goal for the new year is to appear before the throne of God more boldly. I want to have mountains-moving faith, and ask God for things as big as I want, regardless of how “realistic” they may seem to others. I’m no longer interested in approaching God from a fearful or weary perspective, I’m choosing to be confident before him.

I’m choosing to put my trust in the one who has no limits and has stated that his plans for me are to prosper me and to give me hope. I trust to believe that he sees my obedience and devotion towards him, and that he rewards those sacrifices tenfold by giving us the desires of our hearts.

Chase yourself, and the rest will fall apart as it is meant to be.