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There are times where a pregnant woman doesn’t get sonograms done in their OBGYN’s office. That’s bc they don’t have the equipment or a specialized ultrasound tech or radiologist. In that case your OBGYN will refer you to a RADIOLOGIST office NOT a fertility clinic.

This is usually done when they are doing the 20 week ultrasound where they measure the baby’s everything and make sure baby is healthy and all parts and organs are there.

A RADIOLOGIST OFFICE NOT A FERTILITY CLINIC!!!

Come on people use your common sense for a bit. Why would a young woman who wasn’t trying to get pregnant to begin with go for check ups at a fertility clinic? Check ups for a suppose oopsie baby?

I know. I’ve gone to one when they were checking me for my endometriosis! And I wasn’t even pregnant. They did nothing but various types of scans - not fertility treatments on the side lmao!

But your average obgyn is going to have what you need for basic pregnancy such as sonogram...that’s literally part of their job 😂

I remember someone saying that harry's accent sounded a little like louis' during hslot but I don't know in what video

“it’s not complicated? well you got it wrong when i was explaining it mate!” “carry on lad!”

No son heterosexuales

O: todos los demás en la habitación pueden verlo

Mira, no voy a pretender saber con certeza cuáles son sus orientaciones sexuales. Pero SÍ creo que tenemos muchas pruebas de que a ambos les gustan los tipos. Y creo que no tienen ningún problema con que lo sepamos.

Además de las muchas cosas que han hecho entre ellos y que se tratan en otras partes del tratado, estas son algunas de las acciones que sugieren que no son correctas.

Harry:

A los niños se les pregunta constantemente qué buscan en las niñas. Te ahorraré muchos ejemplos (algunos de los impresos están aquí) pero Harry CONSTANTEMENTE responde con un lenguaje neutral en cuanto al género, diciendo "alguien que x", "una persona que y". En esta entrevista, parece que en realidad dijo "él", especialmente desde que puso esa cara graciosa justo después. Lo ha estado haciendo desde el principio; en los videos diarios de TXF, se les preguntó , "¿Qué es lo más cariñoso y cariñoso que harías por una chica?" Liam y Niall dicen "ella" o "niña" en sus respuestas, y luego Harry dice claramente: "Yo les escribiría una canción".

Cambió la letra "tal como ella ya la poseía" por "tal como él ya la poseía" mientras agarraba su entrepierna.// just like she already owned it" to "just like he already owned it"

Un entrevistador les preguntó a Harry y Liam:"¿Cuáles son tus rasgos favoritos que buscas en una chica?" Liam comenzó con "mujer, eso es un buen rasgo". Harry respondió: "No es tan importante". Por ejemplo, no es tan importante que una pareja sea mujer. ¡Okey!

Un entrevistador sugirió que la próxima pareja sexual de Niall sea un hombre. Niall expresó su insatisfacción con ese plan, y Harry dijo: "¡Oye, no lo dejes sin probar hasta que lo pruebes, Niall!" Como alguien que lo ha probado y no lo rechaza. (Este fue el mismo día que "no es tan importante").

SUS REACCIONES A LA RESPUESTA DE HARRY. Tómalos uno por uno porque cada uno no tiene precio (estas reacciones no me sugieren que este chico esté sexualmente interesado en las chicas).

"¿Cuándo fue la última vez que te gustó?" Gracias, Liam. (También observe la cara de Harry y el hecho de que Louis le dice cómo responder).

Harry tiene un tatuaje de percha. Por supuesto, es posible que sea para algo completamente diferente, pero es cualquier cosa menos una locura sugerir que representa un armario.

Me entristece un poco que esto haya sucedido porque probablemente se sintió muy avergonzado cuando se dio cuenta de lo que hizo (¿a menos que lo intentara?) , Pero aún así.

Esto es muy polémico y, francamente, creo que este fandom piensa que es mucho mejor en la lectura de labios de lo que es, pero importante independientemente. (Asegúrate de ver el video, porque ese gif corta algunas palabras que Harry le dijo a Zayn antes de "pussy". Hay varias teorías. Algunas personas piensan que él dijo "Para mí es un pussy", "yo diría pussy "o" Deberías decir coño ". Algunos afirman que alguien en la audiencia dijo" Di pussy ", y Harry se lo estaba diciendo a Zayn. Algunas personas niegan que él haya dicho" coño "en absoluto (... están equivocados ). Juzga por ti mismo. Por mi parte, creo que ciertamente dijo "coño" al final, pero no tengo claro si las primeras palabras hacen referencia a algo que dijo alguien en la audiencia, o si es algo como "Por para mí, es un pussy ". Se ríe bastante antes de susurrarle a Zayn: ¿vio o escuchó algo en la audiencia? O se echó a reír cuando vio la pregunta (probablemente no estaba prestando atención hasta ese momento ... .classic Harry) y pensó en lo que le iba a decir a Zayn (¿SÍ miran a la multitud así para ver las preguntas de Twitter)? decir. Definitivamente creo que vale la pena señalar que la respuesta real de Harry a la pregunta resultó ser un tipo de pez, y él es un tipo astuto, así que dudo que haya sido una coincidencia. (Si no está familiarizado con la asociación entre las partes de pez y de dama, le animo a que consulte Urban Dictionary.) En pocas palabras: entre las dos partes de todo el incidente, supongo que mi teoría es que escuchó / vio a alguien en la audiencia. Di "¡Di coño!", se rió, le dijo a Zayn lo que escuchó y luego elaboró ​​su respuesta para poder decir coño sin decir "coño".

Es un gran admirador de fingir que hace mamadas.

Parece tener bastante polla en el cerebro ...

Louis:

¿Quién dice eso? Tan platónico, tan heterosexual.

¿Qué sucede cuando el acento de un entrevistador australiano hace que la palabra "bowl" suene como "ball"? Toda la vida de Louis pasa ante sus ojos.

Tiene un tatuaje de triángulo en el tobillo. Los triángulos son un símbolo famoso del movimiento por los derechos de los homosexuales. En cuanto a la moda, Louis es quizás más conocido por subirse las perneras de los pantalones: sus tobillos están expuestos con mucha frecuencia. Y Harry una vez tuiteó esto.

Mostrando casualmente a su miembro de la banda masculina su propia muñeca de rodillas.

"Y te necesito aquí conmigo ahora, porque tienes esa gran polla".

Mire el rostro de Louis cuando Harry regrese en ropa interior.

Imitando mamadas y pajas.

Simulando montar mientras Liam canta la palabra "más duro".

El lenguaje corporal es una cosa.

The H+L Treatise

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INDEX

Introducción

Ellos en verdad están enamorados

Desde el inicio

Tienen sexo

Salidas

Cohabitan

Tatuajes

No son heterosexuales

Narrativas Públicas

Negaciones y management

Conclusión

La versión ‘corta’ 

What is he doing???

Eleanor goes to public events with Louis to keep up appearances. This has been the case for a long time. 

Eleanor’s purpose as a beard is to be an answer to the question  “Who is Louis dating?” because if there’s a woman he is dating, it shuts down a lot of speculation about his sexuality. If Louis goes alone, then there is no answer to “who did he take as his plus one?” and that invites more speculation. 

Louis also cannot out himself to his friends’ extended families. That would create a great deal of drama. He cannot expect everyone in a wedding party to keep a secret and take no photos of himself with Harry. If Louis were dating a man who was a nobody, he might be able to get away with introducing him as a friend. If Louis were secretly dating Oli, he would already be getting away with it - Oli has gone to weddings with Louis and Eleanor. But Harry and Louis haven’t publicly been close friends for a long time and so the two of them together would attract a lot of attention and gossip, which isn’t really a polite thing to bring to someone else’s wedding.

So can Harry and Louis attend weddings together? Yes. If it’s a small wedding of people they know, trust, and are out to, then they could go as a couple. We would probably never know they were there because they wouldn’t want to risk the public seeing photos and asking questions. But they don’t need to. Busy  people go to weddings without their partner all the time. Closeted people go to weddings without their partner all the time. I know that as a fandom, many would like to see them doing cute, romantic, couple-y things together. But real life isn’t a fairy tale and the older you get, the less big events matter to a relationship. 

Now, why is Louis still doing this if he is “free”? First, let’s be clear: He isn’t fully free. He will never be free of the homophobia that put him in a closet in the first place. He will never be free of his beards because they will always be in his past. And those two things make navigating his future very complicated and very difficult, especially because he is so incredibly famous.

I’ll also add that as long as Louis is with Simon Jones PR, who are connected to 1D, I will have doubt that he is completely free of old contractual obligations regarding his public image. Contracts can and do control public image beyond the duration of someone’s actual work. They can’t control someone’s real life, but they can control what the public sees. (There’s good reason these contracts are heavily criticized. They’re fucking inhumane.) So we don’t know what Louis is actually allowed to do without getting sued into the ground right now. And SJPR isn’t a good sign.

Finally, I have probably said this a million times now, but if I were advising Louis, I would encourage him to use any intended changes in his public dating life strategically to support his career. In other words: stunts are for PR, so use them for PR. And that would mean continuing things as normal until it was time for those changes to happen. Suddenly changing your entire public image and stoking the flames of multiple public scandals, all while having nothing to promote, is a terrible idea for anyone with a career that requires public life. It may hurt, but the best choice in the long run is to make sure everything rolls out in a controlled manner. And we have no idea what issues he may be facing in doing that when it comes to relationships with the media, so it may also take time to keep secrets from people who would sell him out in a heartbeat while finding good people who are willing and able to handle his story.

At the end of the day, though, Harry and Louis have been doing this job for a decade. They grew up together in this bizarre situation. They’ve found ways to stay strong together. While we all want to see good things happen for them, we have to be patient. No one here suffers more from their situation than they do, and I think that’s important to remember. They’re navigating a lot. And for the time being, it’s up to us to see and support them. Our support can change a lot for them, we just have to have the patience to see it through.

Anyway, I was looking for a cute gif to end this with but instead these two came up separately so here, scream with me:

They are not straight

OR: eeeeveryone ellllse in the rooooom can seeeee it

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I'm crying

if harry’s confidence in wearing nail polish and purses etc is overwhelming to us just i m a g i n e how it is to louis who has probably heard midnight soft confessions in like 2013 of the things harry wanted to wear and do but was not sure yet and “lou I did my nails pink what do you think, I’ll have to take it off for tonight’s concert but” and “babe I bought this purse but I don’t think I can wear it” and now louis gets to see his boy just absolutey killing out there? these things must be ten times more overwhelming for louis

Hey racist. Dalton can sing rings around Louis. Its the absolute truth. Louis getting kicked 3 times out of XFactor as he got put in the band only the 3 time he came for his pretty face not poor vocal abilities. That white pretty face and conspiracy theorist maked you racism flare up huh? You speak over POCs and disregard the facts all in service of your cult like conspiracy theory. You are just like trumpies.

Okay, so I've been ignoring your fucking silly ass because you're a stupid person who doesn't have anything more interesting to do than going to blogs and mess with them just because.

Do you even know who you're talking to?, I'm sure not, because I'M a black women, and here we're not talking about racism, but if you wanna talk about that, let's start, you're the only fucking racist shit here, no one else is saying that because he's black he can't be more talented than Louis, but you, for some reason, assume that, and that's not it you start messing with larries(? BECAUSE OF THEIR RACE, as a black women I can tell you that that's fucking sick, you know shit about Louis, if you think that he's not talented is your fucking opinion, I don't think the same as you and that's perfectly fine, although it's a FACT that, at least, he have some talent, I'm so done with you and trying to be polite, you're not calling me racist.

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I mean no offense here, but this kind of thing which is just pure baseless conjecture & is not supported by or connected to anything else, is really bad for this fandom because it encourages people to just free-associate whatever they can imagine rather than to actually look at what we can find and think critically about it.

Louis wore the York rose for Doncaster, where he is from. What Harry wore is not technically the Tudor rose because it isn’t a five-petal flower, although I will grant it does look very similar. If it was intended to be a Tudor rose, it would be one.

They are both roses, and Harry and Louis are undoubtedly aware of what the dagger and rose mean to us, so that connection is there although it is still a reach.

In order for me to consider this worth anyone’s attention, I would need to see both of them continuing the rose motif or one of them to very clearly connect the rose motif to their relationship.

What is absolutely not worth anyone’s attention is building reach upon reach. When you are that many degrees removed from concrete facts, you end up with a lot of confirmation bias (such as connecting the Tudor rose to the idea of a Larry marriage without any supporting evidence. They just jump to marriage because it would affirm their belief Larry is/will be married.)

I would encourage anyone following this account to unfollow because they represent themselves as this:

Notice how they disclaim that they aren’t claiming anything is fact and then frame their tweets as “reporting” which implies that their ideas are newsworthy? It’s the exact same bullshit that is used to spread disinformation. You do not get to wipe your hands of any kind of accountability for what you post.

That’s why I have a corrections tag.

That is why when I propose something I lay out my reasoning as clearly as possible.

That is why, when I post a question, it can be answered. “Is Louis wearing a ring?” No. It’s in corrections now. “Where is this room?” In Syco offices, which we found thanks to an honest, accountable collective effort (and is also now in corrections because it was spread virally as a claim that /something I was asking about/ was something I was /proposing as a theory/).

If you are interested in understanding what Harry and Louis are communicating (both deliberately as they did with the bears AND in the same sense as we all communicate about ourselves culturally), then you cannot play games. You have to ask questions that can be answered and have clear reasons for those questions.

I believe these kinds of posts and threads and accounts are really bad for the fandom and for the mental health of the individuals that follow them. They get people excited about random coincidences, which leads people to build expectations for some kind of reveal. But the cause for excitement is baseless and nothing comes of it, leading people to feel resentful, exhausted, and angry. It is a rapid churn of ideas that keeps people coming back for more, can facilitate addiction, and reduces the burden of proof necessary for something to be taken seriously by the fandom which moves the fandom further away from actually understanding the bigger picture.

(It’s the exact same shit HLT, CBO, and random predictions accounts do. So know what you’re getting into if you choose to continue to engage with it.)