There Are Times Where A Pregnant Woman Doesn’t Get Sonograms Done In Their OBGYN’s Office. That’s

They are not straight

OR: eeeeveryone ellllse in the rooooom can seeeee it

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If you watched the Harrychella 1 live stream, you probably noticed Harry's special guest during Late Night Talking (not Shania!):

Who is she?

I think I have an idea...

My first thought was some kind of fertility idol or Venus statue. Didn't find anything particularly close.

Then I saw a picture that made it click:

Notice Harry biting into the apple? It could have biblical connotations: Eve's temptation. So I looked for a statue depicting it.

What I found instead was this:

Venus with the Apple by Thorvaldsens.

All the gods of Classical Greek mythology were invited to a party, except for Eris, the goddess of strife. She had her revenge by throwing a golden apple with the inscription “To the fairest goddess” in among the party guests. But who the fairest of the goddesses was could not be agreed on. Therefore the choice was given to the earthly son of a king, Paris. The choice was between Juno, Minerva and Venus, and it was the latter, goddess of beauty and love, who won and received the apple. The sculpture depicts Venus after the beauty contest. With one hand she grips the clothes on the tree stump to put them back on. With the other she holds the token of beauty up to her admiring gaze.

look familiar? I think this is what we are seeing on stage.

Interestingly, she disappears as Harry sings "Now you're in my life, I can't get you off my mind, I won't even try"

Perhaps she's in his mind? Like a daydream?

There's more to be said here, no doubt, but for now I just wanted to share this little find. <3

Cohabitation

OR: Harry is homeless

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Eleanor goes to public events with Louis to keep up appearances. This has been the case for a long time. 

Eleanor’s purpose as a beard is to be an answer to the question  “Who is Louis dating?” because if there’s a woman he is dating, it shuts down a lot of speculation about his sexuality. If Louis goes alone, then there is no answer to “who did he take as his plus one?” and that invites more speculation. 

Louis also cannot out himself to his friends’ extended families. That would create a great deal of drama. He cannot expect everyone in a wedding party to keep a secret and take no photos of himself with Harry. If Louis were dating a man who was a nobody, he might be able to get away with introducing him as a friend. If Louis were secretly dating Oli, he would already be getting away with it - Oli has gone to weddings with Louis and Eleanor. But Harry and Louis haven’t publicly been close friends for a long time and so the two of them together would attract a lot of attention and gossip, which isn’t really a polite thing to bring to someone else’s wedding.

So can Harry and Louis attend weddings together? Yes. If it’s a small wedding of people they know, trust, and are out to, then they could go as a couple. We would probably never know they were there because they wouldn’t want to risk the public seeing photos and asking questions. But they don’t need to. Busy  people go to weddings without their partner all the time. Closeted people go to weddings without their partner all the time. I know that as a fandom, many would like to see them doing cute, romantic, couple-y things together. But real life isn’t a fairy tale and the older you get, the less big events matter to a relationship. 

Now, why is Louis still doing this if he is “free”? First, let’s be clear: He isn’t fully free. He will never be free of the homophobia that put him in a closet in the first place. He will never be free of his beards because they will always be in his past. And those two things make navigating his future very complicated and very difficult, especially because he is so incredibly famous.

I’ll also add that as long as Louis is with Simon Jones PR, who are connected to 1D, I will have doubt that he is completely free of old contractual obligations regarding his public image. Contracts can and do control public image beyond the duration of someone’s actual work. They can’t control someone’s real life, but they can control what the public sees. (There’s good reason these contracts are heavily criticized. They’re fucking inhumane.) So we don’t know what Louis is actually allowed to do without getting sued into the ground right now. And SJPR isn’t a good sign.

Finally, I have probably said this a million times now, but if I were advising Louis, I would encourage him to use any intended changes in his public dating life strategically to support his career. In other words: stunts are for PR, so use them for PR. And that would mean continuing things as normal until it was time for those changes to happen. Suddenly changing your entire public image and stoking the flames of multiple public scandals, all while having nothing to promote, is a terrible idea for anyone with a career that requires public life. It may hurt, but the best choice in the long run is to make sure everything rolls out in a controlled manner. And we have no idea what issues he may be facing in doing that when it comes to relationships with the media, so it may also take time to keep secrets from people who would sell him out in a heartbeat while finding good people who are willing and able to handle his story.

At the end of the day, though, Harry and Louis have been doing this job for a decade. They grew up together in this bizarre situation. They’ve found ways to stay strong together. While we all want to see good things happen for them, we have to be patient. No one here suffers more from their situation than they do, and I think that’s important to remember. They’re navigating a lot. And for the time being, it’s up to us to see and support them. Our support can change a lot for them, we just have to have the patience to see it through.

Anyway, I was looking for a cute gif to end this with but instead these two came up separately so here, scream with me:

One year of Walls:

Walls works because it’s a culmination of Louis Tomlinson’s best assets—the distinct edge of his vocals and his commanding lyrical prowess. Tomlinson’s voice has a knack of making a listener feel as though he’s sitting across the kitchen table, speaking directly to them. It’s personable, tender, comforting, and it’s endearing. His peaks as a vocalist breathe through his debut, nailing airy falsettos and parading his raspy edge. Lyrically, whether it be him tackling adversity in the title track with, “These high walls never broke my soul,” shedding the tightly constructed public image tied to his boyband past in “Habit” with, “I took some time ‘cause I’ve ran out of energy of playing someone I’ve heard I’m supposed to be,” directly asking a friend the heavy question, “[are you] strong enough to get it wrong in front of all these people” in nostalgia-chasing’s “Fearless,” or sticking true to his clever symbolism found in “Defenceless” that details, “We’re sleeping on our problems like we’ll solve them in our dreams / we wake up early morning, and it’s still under the sheets,” it’s obvious that Tomlinson is a true songwriter. All in all, it’s in the conjoined efforts of these two aspects of his artistry that lays a solid foundation for Tomlinson moving forward. Walls has proven that he has what it takes to stand on his own, and looking towards the future just like the record’s closing lines, Tomlinson has shown that “it’s [his] solo song, and it’s only for the brave.” x

It's so fucking late and I was kinda inactive, but I really need to put this shit out.

Okay, so I was watching a video about homosexuality and genetic when in one part the person says that there are some regions of the chromosomes 8 and X that have relation with homosexuality, in the X chromosome the region is "Xq28", I was so fucking shocked, I thought it was false so I just search and I found the papers of the study....

X X X

Are you thinking what I'm thinking? Or I'm just going crazy?

I'll do more research later, I just want to sleep.

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Es muy tarde, pero necesito decir esta mierda.

Bueno, estaba viendo un vídeo sobre homosexualidad y genética cuando en una parte la persona dice que hay regiones en los cromosomas 8 y X que tienen relación con la homosexualidad, en el cromosoma X la región es "Xq28", quedé en shock, pensé que era falso, así que busqué y encontré los papers del estudio...

X X X

¿Están pensando lo que yo? ¿O me estoy volviendo loca?

Seguiré investigando luego, ahora sólo quiero dormir.

New Holivia Deuxmoi submission. No pics, of course. Laugh with me.

Ugh, my eyes just rolled back so hard.

This sounds like it’s about last weekend (?) at Soho Farmhouse (?). They’re keeping the “let’s make this super believable” streak. Can this movie come out already so this stunt can be over?

I’m not aware of any Ferraris Harry owns in the UK. Here are his cars.

🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻 (source)

The Biggest “Oh Shit” Moment :D