Being GNC and not transitioning is the most punk thing you can do actually
scored shoutout from sexy gf!!!!
i want to talk about a phenomenon in the trans community that reminds me of political lesbianism—a phenomenon that my gf refers to as “political transgenderism.”
during the second wave of feminism a lot of hetero/bisexual women stripped their sexualities and put on the label “lesbian” as a means to progress feminism. they believed that to be a feminist meant they had to exclude men from their attraction, despite the fact that sexuality is an innate, uncontrollable trait!
similarly, i see this sentiment crop up in trans communities. every single person who touts “you don’t need dysphoria to be trans” is a proponent of political transgenderism. they believe that in order to destroy the evil cisgenders, MORE people need to identify as trans or nonbinary! they believe that identifying as trans/NB is a valid political strategy.
my issue with both political lesbianism and political transgenderism is that there is no need to change your identity in order to fight whatever fight you believe in. i don’t need to claim to be Black in order to be anti racism or claim to be an amputee to be anti ableism. the only type of person who needs to center themselves and their identity in their political beliefs is a selfish and egotistical one.
political lesbians and political transgender people co-opt the struggles and vulnerabilities of marginalized groups. they use stereotypes and generalizations as an attempt to “pass” as “valid.” when really, the only thing that makes one a lesbian is exclusive female same-sex attraction, and the only thing that makes someone trans is dysphoria.
you’re delusional if you think there are any ethical ways for a woman to be sold like an object.
“i say mostly cis because, while i am largely gender non conforming…. i still am a woman?”
how sad is it that gnc women truly believe womanhood is about femininity
The pattern of default referring to butches as “they” is so transparent and homophobic
how TRAs look at me after hiding their blatant misogyny by slapping "white" in front of their anti-woman statement
Stoner Boyfriend (Lesbian)