do people understand that the lesbian/dyke community was originally created by women who were comfortable enough in their womanhood but also in their gender expression to be butch and be masculine and love women in society comfortably with support from people around them who also experience the same thing?? as a dyke i have never once felt compelled to get top surgery or change my name or my pronouns, because im comfortable with the sex i was born as. i’m not saying anything is inherently wrong with sex dysphoria and wanting to transition however refusing to let go of a lesbian label while identifying as “male” or “male-adjacent” is just plain lesbophobic and misogynistic. the entire point of dykes is that they’re women who are comfortable being masculine. if you’re a women who changes everything about herself (ie name pronouns body etc) then what about you is dyke? and tbh idgaf if you “still feel like your connection to women is queer” it’s sure as shit not dykey because being a dyke is to be a masculine lesbian. sorry but you can’t have your cake and eat it too. when did words lose literally every meaning. how is saying “once a lesbian always a lesbian” and shit like this not coined as lesbophobic????
an abused wife of the 1700s who’s birthed 16 children and has not been allowed to leave the house for the last 7 years will write in her diary “i am cursed to be a woman. i wish i were a man, so i could be free, and i wouldn’t always be pregnant, aching, and i could explore, see the world, and learn. why did god forsake me with this body?” and you’ll search her name on tumblr and get “he was such a transmasc legend!! trans people have always existed! proof is right here! he suffered because he wanted to transition so bad 😔 this is why gender transition must be a human right, and deadnaming should be illegal. stupid TERFs, complaining about sex-based oppression. that doesn’t even exist.”
The pattern of default referring to butches as “they” is so transparent and homophobic
hi i made a tumblr bc my terf gf @dykeotomy demanded i speak my mind freely here bc i can’t do it at my overpriced liberal bs university
you’re delusional if you think there are any ethical ways for a woman to be sold like an object.
Society isn't "becoming more sex positive" it's becoming more porn obsessed.