“i Say Mostly Cis Because, While I Am Largely Gender Non Conforming…. I Still Am A Woman?”

you’re delusional if you think there are any ethical ways for a woman to be sold like an object.

Society isn't "becoming more sex positive" it's becoming more porn obsessed.

tims will literally write graphic rape fantasies about women and how they want to “correct” lesbians but will throw a tantrum when you tell them that males shouldn’t be in women’s spaces

gotta be a joke

the really ironic thing about terfs is like 70% of them are just transmisogynistic cishet men who pretend to be women online just to get a platform in transmisogynistic feminism. pretty fucked up

scored shoutout from sexy gf!!!!

i want to talk about a phenomenon in the trans community that reminds me of political lesbianism—a phenomenon that my gf refers to as “political transgenderism.”

during the second wave of feminism a lot of hetero/bisexual women stripped their sexualities and put on the label “lesbian” as a means to progress feminism. they believed that to be a feminist meant they had to exclude men from their attraction, despite the fact that sexuality is an innate, uncontrollable trait!

similarly, i see this sentiment crop up in trans communities. every single person who touts “you don’t need dysphoria to be trans” is a proponent of political transgenderism. they believe that in order to destroy the evil cisgenders, MORE people need to identify as trans or nonbinary! they believe that identifying as trans/NB is a valid political strategy.

my issue with both political lesbianism and political transgenderism is that there is no need to change your identity in order to fight whatever fight you believe in. i don’t need to claim to be Black in order to be anti racism or claim to be an amputee to be anti ableism. the only type of person who needs to center themselves and their identity in their political beliefs is a selfish and egotistical one.

political lesbians and political transgender people co-opt the struggles and vulnerabilities of marginalized groups. they use stereotypes and generalizations as an attempt to “pass” as “valid.” when really, the only thing that makes one a lesbian is exclusive female same-sex attraction, and the only thing that makes someone trans is dysphoria.

"Feminism is for everyone" but it's women's job to facilitate change for every single marginalized group, women are the one's expected to monitor their vocabulary, advocate for everyone, spend hours analyzing their natural sexuality to make sure they aren't being prejudiced by not fucking certain people, and put all of their energy and focus towards every other cause before even thinking of addressing issues like reproductive rights or our astronomical rates of SA.

Meanwhile men get to sit back, jerk off to filmed rape, maybe make a "trans are rights are human rights!" or "women are people" tweet every once in a while and they get a standing ovation.

So from where I'm standing it seems like whatever feminism is now, it's for everyone except women.

something to think about

Porn defenders will unironically say shit like, "When the actress is screaming and crying and begging them to stop, she's ✨️acting✨️ silly, it's not real. The tear in her anus is fake. The black eye is fake. You probably think dragons are real because you watched GOT. When she's smiling and says it feels good? No, that's real. Why on earth would she be acting."