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Head Games

He should be trained so that, as he finds himself getting close to the point of no return, he should announce that he is close.  This gives her the opportunity to decide “Not yet” or “Cum for me.”  By waiting until this very last moment to announce her decision, she maximizes his hope and yearning.

  When it comes to deciding if he gets to cum that day or not… she could just simply decide for herself if she wants to let him cum or not.  This is empowering for her, and puts his pleasure at her mercy, which is motivation for him to be sure she is pleased that day.

  But maybe she doesn’t want to be the one responsible for his disappointment when she says no.  Then, aside from a woman’s choice, she can also use games that do the deciding for her.  Anything from a simple flip of the coin, which is unpredictable enough, to a dice throw, or a card draw, can be exciting random deciders for both of you.

  The more creative she is in deciding his fate, the more unpredictable the situation will be for him.  Change the rules from time to time.  She can even do away with the games altogether now and then, and enjoy a “normal” relationship for a while, only to suddenly spring a new set of rules on him again as he nears the brink of what he thought would be a routine orgasm.  Remember… unpredictability is the name of the game for Teasing and Denial, and soon you’ll both be as giddy and infatuated as you both were when he first asked her out.

  Games for deciding

  Flip of a coin is a 50/50 chance of coming.

  Dice:  Maybe a 6 on the dice means a full enjoyable orgasm, a 5 means a ruined orgasm, a 1 means denial that day, and a 2 thru 4 is how many hundred more strokes he must endure before rolling again (or how many DAYS he must wait to roll again if you’re mean!).

  Make up similar rules for a deck of cards such that the various cards of a deck represent different fates.  

  She could make it dependent upon his winning at a game they enjoy together, which will not only get him sexually excited, but also make him motivated to play the games she enjoys.

  Consider making his orgasm dependent upon things entirely outside their control, like the weather.  If they live in a rainy area, consider for a while allowing him to cum only when it is raining!

  A popular game uses colored marbles.  When he’s close, she picks a color at random from a jar, and if it is the right color, he gets to cum.  If it’s a different color, he gets a ruined orgasm, and if it’s an unlucky color, he doesn’t get to come at all that day.  The frequency of orgasms is determined by the ratio of colors, so she can assure that a healthy average can be maintained.

  Another popular game on the Internet uses beans, over which she has “unfair” control.  He starts each Monday with four or five beans, and throughout the week he must pay some beans in order to cum.  The fun part is, as he nears his orgasm, she gets to decide how many beans that orgasm will cost him, except on Sunday when orgasms always cost just one bean.  This gives him some sense of control, since he must decide for himself if her price is worth it or not, but ultimately she has an unfair advantage, since she sets the price.  If he makes it to Sunday and he has no beans left, he doesn’t get to take advantage of Sunday’s discounted orgasms, either.  This gives her some incentive to tease him into enough desperation that he gives up all his beans at a much higher price early in the week.

How to Open Up Your Husbands Ass.

A few years ago I could only get a 2 inch wide dildo up inside my husband’s ass hole. I had just bought him a new smaller chastity cage with a new thimble type dick head cap lined with spikes. The dick head cover doesn’t allow for any finger massage of his dick head and the spikes lining it don’t allow any unauthorized erections. Basically his 2 inch dick was made even more useless. But any self respecting chaste pussy slave husband should be able to take at least a 3 inch wide plug up his ass. I couldn’t get one wider than 2 inches to fit up his ass no matter how hard I pushed. He always squirmed away and cried. I couldn’t have the other Doms bragging about how big a plug would fit up inside their slaves. What was I to do? A friend of mine told me what to do. I let my husband open his own asshole. One Saturday I had a friend come over. My husband was naked as usual except for his tiny painful cage. I had his hands cuffed behind him. The poor thing thought maybe I was going to take off his cage and edge him or let him come. (He hadn’t come in at least a month then) My friend brought in a special chair that was wood, straight back, no arms, had a ring in the seat, and a special rubber plug that fit into the seat behind the ring. The plug was a big tapered evil looking thing that was at least 8 or 9 inches long but flared out to nearly 3 ½ inches wide near the base but then back down to an inch or so. She also had some more ankle cuffs and chains. We set it down in the bedroom but my husband had already figured out what it was. He started begging and crying and trying to get away from us.  I had thankfully earlier put a leash on his balls and was holding the other end. A hard pull on the leash put a stop to his leaving. We set the chair up in the bedroom. She called it an asshole trainer. We put the well greased plug in the middle of the chair on a shot post, put my husband squating over the plug with it in his ass a few inches, his hands now cuffed to the legs. his ankles cuffed to the legs too. A very short chain hooked to his balls to the ring in the seat so he couldn’t raise up any. Poor baby, we had to gag him with a ball gag. How long could he stand holding his ass off  of the seat? In order to sit down and get relief on his legs he would have to slowly lower his ass on to the giant plug. Did you know that a man’s ass hole will stretch out nicely if he puts his mind to it?  We found that out. My female friend and I laid on the the bed naked, enjoying each others pussies, while we watched just how long it took for my husband to sit down comfortably. He sure grunted, sweated, and moaned a lot but after about 2 hours he made a little shake and a loud grunt, and he was comfortably seated all the way in the chair with the plug securely fitting all the way up his ass. I think he enjoyed it too because his little caged dick was swollen and tight up against the spikes in the tip of his cage. We let him enjoy his seat for a while, and the pain in his dick head while we had drinks and another go at eating each others pussies. I really had to pull later to get the plug out of him but after that day I’m happy to say that he could be easily fist fucked up the ass like the other caged slaves. What a wonderful training aid and a nice day. It’s nice to have good friends.

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