Head Games

Head Games

He should be trained so that, as he finds himself getting close to the point of no return, he should announce that he is close.  This gives her the opportunity to decide “Not yet” or “Cum for me.”  By waiting until this very last moment to announce her decision, she maximizes his hope and yearning.

  When it comes to deciding if he gets to cum that day or not… she could just simply decide for herself if she wants to let him cum or not.  This is empowering for her, and puts his pleasure at her mercy, which is motivation for him to be sure she is pleased that day.

  But maybe she doesn’t want to be the one responsible for his disappointment when she says no.  Then, aside from a woman’s choice, she can also use games that do the deciding for her.  Anything from a simple flip of the coin, which is unpredictable enough, to a dice throw, or a card draw, can be exciting random deciders for both of you.

  The more creative she is in deciding his fate, the more unpredictable the situation will be for him.  Change the rules from time to time.  She can even do away with the games altogether now and then, and enjoy a “normal” relationship for a while, only to suddenly spring a new set of rules on him again as he nears the brink of what he thought would be a routine orgasm.  Remember… unpredictability is the name of the game for Teasing and Denial, and soon you’ll both be as giddy and infatuated as you both were when he first asked her out.

  Games for deciding

  Flip of a coin is a 50/50 chance of coming.

  Dice:  Maybe a 6 on the dice means a full enjoyable orgasm, a 5 means a ruined orgasm, a 1 means denial that day, and a 2 thru 4 is how many hundred more strokes he must endure before rolling again (or how many DAYS he must wait to roll again if you’re mean!).

  Make up similar rules for a deck of cards such that the various cards of a deck represent different fates.  

  She could make it dependent upon his winning at a game they enjoy together, which will not only get him sexually excited, but also make him motivated to play the games she enjoys.

  Consider making his orgasm dependent upon things entirely outside their control, like the weather.  If they live in a rainy area, consider for a while allowing him to cum only when it is raining!

  A popular game uses colored marbles.  When he’s close, she picks a color at random from a jar, and if it is the right color, he gets to cum.  If it’s a different color, he gets a ruined orgasm, and if it’s an unlucky color, he doesn’t get to come at all that day.  The frequency of orgasms is determined by the ratio of colors, so she can assure that a healthy average can be maintained.

  Another popular game on the Internet uses beans, over which she has “unfair” control.  He starts each Monday with four or five beans, and throughout the week he must pay some beans in order to cum.  The fun part is, as he nears his orgasm, she gets to decide how many beans that orgasm will cost him, except on Sunday when orgasms always cost just one bean.  This gives him some sense of control, since he must decide for himself if her price is worth it or not, but ultimately she has an unfair advantage, since she sets the price.  If he makes it to Sunday and he has no beans left, he doesn’t get to take advantage of Sunday’s discounted orgasms, either.  This gives her some incentive to tease him into enough desperation that he gives up all his beans at a much higher price early in the week.