Being Irregular Or Having Rough Edges Is A Good Thing

My dream house lol

Oh my this was so relevant this weekend, and the narcissistic, irrelevant and boring opinions from people who used to have a claim on my life. No more, I've forgiven them, moved on, and have no real thoughts of them anymore except as a fact just happens to be a small part of my story...

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

There must be a joke here, what do you call two goths in a wood? Lol.

This is really sweet, I do think being gothic in natural surroundings is always a wonderful thing.

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Yep I've been here, and phoenix like am strong from the ashes, but gentle as the breeze from my wings from that birth. (C) corvina fae 2025 this text not the original above

“If you have been brutally broken, but still have the courage to be gentle to others then you deserve a love deeper than the ocean itself.”

— Nikita Gill

I love this so much

Never trust a girl when you should have trusted a woman

These do make me giggle ... so sweet

That’s it let the whispers compel you to edge your mind away or maybe they don’t have to. Maybe you’re already rubbing or stroking to the idea of submission. Maybe you’re trying to empty your mind and let more of The Void in. Maybe you’re already starting to crave submitting to it. All it takes it just one more edge. Just one more to get closer. One more to empty your mind. One more to surrender your mind and body. One more. One more.

How true. I absolutely love delivering that line, but also making them wait and get all hot and bothered wondering when I'm going to say it. It's a tease that is almost as effective as physical tease play.

Yummy

boys are such sluts. all you have to do is throw a condescending ‘good boy’ in the same way you would coo to a pet and they’re already hard and leaky.

What are you feelings about mommy domme play?

TL;DR ... to each their own, no judgment

Thank you for the question.

I'll disambiguate it a bit.

Mommy domme in my real life experience is often with littles with whom there's a definite style but also obviously subject to boundaries and scene negotiation. I've enjoyed gentle participation at events with contemporaries of mine who have little in their care. It can be quite sweet, but can also be more sexual and it's not an area I'm comfy or interested in, if that's the case.

Online ... mommy domme again can be quite sweet, but to me seems to have a lot of repetition that for me just doesn't work. If you're my submissive I expect you to know to drink enough water, manage your life, and own your own situations. I'm a busy professional person and parent to four adult children, I really don't have time to micro manage you. If mommy domme means just the more nurturing side rather than sadistic, strict or sensual then that's fine but for me I'm very sensual and a lot of submissive or dominant play is in line with that.

I am however very picky for myself in who I talk to, I'm in the position I can be. Sometimes I talk to people who obviously get an initial something then either back off, or apparently can't or don't want to make any effort themselves. I'm not sure if this is a personal maturity thing or mindset on their part, or perhaps a general preference for subs with mommy domm leaning.

There are, apparently, lots of people on tumblr who seem to enjoy the nurturing micromanaging role, so if that's what you're looking for I'm sure you'll have plenty to approach.

Be safe, sane and consensual always.