Oh my this was so relevant this weekend, and the narcissistic, irrelevant and boring opinions from people who used to have a claim on my life. No more, I've forgiven them, moved on, and have no real thoughts of them anymore except as a fact just happens to be a small part of my story...
I love this, says it all really, femininity nurtures the land and gives life to it, and takes pleasure in that giving (c) corvina fae text, image unknown origin.
There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.
It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.
Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.
Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre
Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough
don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.
One of those days where standing up for yourself, having difficult conversations and being authentic is hard, but absolutely the right thing to do. Go me.
I love this ... Which explains to me why the most mundane acts with someone can be so hugely charged, whereas with someone else a beautifully crafted scene can sometimes fall flat ...
Adélia Prado, The Mystical Rose: Selected Poems, from “Dysrhythmia“ tr by Ellen Watson
Spanking a boy over my lap is one of my favourite dominant act. Feeling him wriggle and seeing the effect on him just gets me so aroused, usually I have to make myself come while he's been made to stand in the corner so I can see his red ass as I give myself the biggest climax. No you can't look, be a good boy.
need to bend a pretty boy over my lap and spank him till he’s a struggling, teary-eyed mess, leaky cock between my thighs, groping his ass between each spank as he thanks me in a shaky voice <3
Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl. I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. See links coming soon for Amazon products ... be good ...
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