there is no aging out of having fun. there is no expiration date for joy. if you see someone freely and unabashedly expressing themself in a way that is ultimately harmless, and you balk because you think that person should have "grown out" of whatever it is that's bringing them happiness by now: you have GOT to start asking yourself questions. where did you learn to treat enjoyment the way a grocery store treats blemished fruit, sooner sent to the landfill than the malnourished? who benefits from the narrative that aging and spiritual suppression go hand in hand? and what harmless amusements, dear neighbor, are you telling yourself that you're not allowed to indulge anymore, for fear of scalding judgment by so many shame-filled strangers who don't even know your name?
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“My biggest regrets in life are being too damn nice, apologizing when I didn’t do anything wrong, and making unworthy people a priority.”
— Unknown
Time to be more tolerant with myself. Less judgmental. Softer. Kinder. More patient. Because I deserve to treat myself with the same understanding I give others, with the same respect, with the same tolerance. I won't bully myself into becoming a better person, I will be kind and supportive of who I am while I am growing.
“The most creative act you will ever undertake is the act of creating yourself.”
— Deepak Chopra
“Don’t forget - no one else sees the world the way you do, so no one else can tell the stories that you have to tell.”
— Charles de Lint, The Blue Girl