Constantlyquestion - LiveAndLetLive

More people need to hear this: all asexuals are valid, no matter where you fall under the umbrella, and no matter the "reason" you're asexual. You can be naturally ace, ace because of meds, ace because of dysphoria, ace because of trauma, ace because of a disease... Any reason that has an impact on your way to live your (a)sexuality, makes you a valid asexual and you're welcome in the community. Fuck the aphobes and the radicals who say otherwise.

“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”

— Wayne Dyer

“Respect people’s feelings. Even if it doesn’t mean anything to you. It could mean everything to them.”

— Unknown

“Until we have seen someone’s darkness, we don’t really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone’s darkness, we don’t really know what love is.”

— Marianne Williamson

Time to be more tolerant with myself. Less judgmental. Softer. Kinder. More patient. Because I deserve to treat myself with the same understanding I give others, with the same respect, with the same tolerance. I won't bully myself into becoming a better person, I will be kind and supportive of who I am while I am growing.

You are not responsible for anyone’s distorted perception of you.

“Try not to feel jealous about things, or other people and what they have. It will make you bitter and kill you inside. Just keep living, and find your own path, and one day you’ll discover your own happiness.”

— Unknown

“I’d spent so long trying to fit in, trying to be someone I wasn’t, that I had no idea who I was any more.”

— Dorothy Koomson, The Rose Petal Beach

“growth isn’t always constant. relapses happen. it doesn’t erase all your success.”

— Unknown