Time to be more tolerant with myself. Less judgmental. Softer. Kinder. More patient. Because I deserve to treat myself with the same understanding I give others, with the same respect, with the same tolerance. I won't bully myself into becoming a better person, I will be kind and supportive of who I am while I am growing.
You’ve grown into someone who would have protected you as a child. And that is the most powerful move you made.
Honestly? Shoutout to those of you who are completely fucking lost in life. Those who don’t know what they want to do with life. Those who are stuck in a certain part of life and can’t get out. Those who are reaching for dreams they feel are impossible to reach. Those who feel like they’re accomplishments are being overlooked. Those who feel like their enough just isn’t enough. It is. You can make it. You will make it. There is an opening at the end of the tunnel.
More people need to hear this: all asexuals are valid, no matter where you fall under the umbrella, and no matter the "reason" you're asexual. You can be naturally ace, ace because of meds, ace because of dysphoria, ace because of trauma, ace because of a disease... Any reason that has an impact on your way to live your (a)sexuality, makes you a valid asexual and you're welcome in the community. Fuck the aphobes and the radicals who say otherwise.
“You were born with the ability to change someone’s life, don’t ever waste it.”
— Unknown