This is aimed more towards the Service Dog community...
Okay, so I have had multiple diagnosis over the past few years. My lovely list includes POTS, hEDS, essential tremors, ect. I am a Junior in HS and I am wanting to owner-train a service dog. My mom thinks that exercise and medication will make me better. The meds that doctors have previously given me haven't worked and I just got an exercise program that is specific to my conditions about a five months ago, and have seen little improvement. I rely a lot on my mom to help me do things and when I get to college, she won't be there to help me anymore. I want to become more independent and really struggle to do so now.
We don't have the money to get a dog professionally trained and I have made it clear that I would be willing to put in all the work. My mom has said on multiple occasions that when our *pet* dog dies, that she doesn't want any more (not because she hates animals, but because she loves to travel) I have explained that a service dog is not considered a pet and that it is a piece of medical equipment. She also says that I can just use our arthritic 8yo dog instead of getting an actual sd because I will get better and won't need one later on. I have done extensive research on what breeds that would best fit my needs, what tasks it would need to learn, and how to train them. I have also spent hours upon hours reading our local and state laws as well as the ADA's.
So...I guess my question is, when did you know that you needed a service dog? And how can I convince my mother?
Edit: She is now saying that if I get a Service dog, our pet has to go live somewhere else.
This was mine
I don’t know what Spotify is trying to tell me but I feel perceived
"These hands may be broken, but they can still be thrown."
- me to @ask-and-i-answer at Disney World
When I see someone in public who is reading a smutty book, I tell them that it's a really good book weather or not I've read it.
The panic in their eyes fuels me.
"I'm okay." I say as my bones crack into a thousand pieces.
"It doesn't hurt." I respond when asked about bruises all over my body.
"Really, I'm fine." I tell my friend as I can physically feel my muscles separate from the surrounding tissue.
"I can make it." I assure my mother before entering a mall with no mobility aids.
"It's gotten better." I lie to my doctor.
bad pain day, 2023, me
alternate titles include “ouch :(“ and “my fucking hips hurt”
Good morning
I still feel like a dream
I can't seem to hold things very well and am constantly dropping things.
This is scary.
I don't feel real.
Has anyone else experienced this?
I need help.
I feel like everything is a dream and I can't comprehend what people are saying to me.
My SDIT has helped to ground me, but I still feel extremely dizzy.
I am hallucinating a small, wiggly man
I can't walk in a straight line and an so thirsty.
Am going to bed.
Why the fuck doesn't aloof doesn't mean silly goofy little guy???
So I'm currently working on cleaning a space out in my living room for a vintage sewing machine and it has taken two days to do so. The space wasn't all that messy, but I could only work for only about an hour before I got hit with nauseating dizziness that knocked me down for the rest of the day.
I ended up learning that even if I think I can stay within my limits, I'm wrong.