Being part of the social justice culture or the “stay woke” culture, I usually thought that the main purposes were to:
1) Unlearn what was taught to you
2) Learn what was never taught to you
3) Educate those around you with the knowledge you have
i wish everything was quieter and softer and less often
“kids these days are always on their phones, kids these days never go outside” ok how about kids these days have less freedom of movement & access to public spaces than any previous generation, forcing them indoors, forcing them to rely on electronics, when many would prefer to be outdoors hanging out with friends
““And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.””
— Friedrich Nietzsche
the holy grail
Art by Zachary McLean
you know how some parents do that toxic thing where they don’t notice or reward kids for improving their behavior, but every screw-up gets remarked upon and used to inflict shame? so you’re stuck in that awful cycle where there are no rewards, only the inevitability of eventual punishment?
I don’t agree that it’s inherently wrong to be angry or to hate someone. I agree that it can be damaging when misused or when it’s allowed to control you, instead of the other way around. I agree that, when we aren’t taught to manage our anger, it has the risk of becoming toxic or overpowering. The same can be said of other emotions (such as sadness). But that doesn’t make it automatically bad.
I believe that our motives are important, when it comes to anger, and that it’s important to ask ourselves
who is my anger harming?
am i harming myself with my anger?
is my anger directed unjustly? is it unhelpful to the situation?
am i allowing my anger to unduly influence my actions? will it lead me to behavior i will regret later?
is my anger making me unhappy?
and if, after weighing these questions, you make the judgement call that being angry is fine under the circumstances–go for it!
My theory is that we all have so many bad experiences w/ anger because we as a society are never taught to engage w/ it in a healthy way. there’s a lot of puritan cultural bullshit (in the u.s. at least) that ignores nuance and casts everything as either good or bad, sinful or sinless–never a shade of grey, never with stipulations. all sins are equally awful, and by fighting back against injustice we ourselves become unjust (which is, of course, nonsense). don’t rock the boat, even if the boat is sinking and we should be relocating to lifeboats. just let it be, or you’re just as bad as them.
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Rebecca Sugar performing the full version of ‘Change Your Mind’!