Polyamorous Relationships - Blog Posts

This has to be my quote of the year.

Polyamorous!Lily Luna Potter

(I imagine her with a slightly different haircut, but let it stay)

A personal rant because I'm hurting

Sorry, non tickles today, although I probably will start writing a new fic in order to cheer myself up.

Remember when I rejoiced over scoring a date with my crush? Well, that thing went out with a bang (and not the fun kind of).

For context, I've been polyamorous with my fiancée for the entire duration of our relationship. Dating others = completely a-okay, as long as our relationship is being nurtured as well and nobody lies or omits important information. This new guy was polyamorous too: I've known him and his nesting partner for years and I've seen them with other romantic partners. The nesting partner a.k.a. my metamour ("Meta") has been friendly with me all this time, so I assumed everything was fine. My crush and I took it quite slowly. Everything felt promising and healthy.

Yesterday he was visiting me for dinner & movie, and we ended up cuddling and kissing for the first time.

Today I then got massive bombs from both the Crush and the Meta: they had had an agreement any intimate action beyond greeting/goodbye hugs requires a permission from the other one first, and Crush hadn't asked for that permission for anything we had done that evening and he and Meta were probably breaking up now.

Now, I personally don't like any heads-up rules like that. I think they're controlling at worst and impractical at best: most often some sort of intimacy happens quite spontaneously, so even without malicious intent it's very easy to break that rule even accidentally. In my book, if you're polyamorous, you accept the fact your partner might end up kissing when they're on a date with someone else.

All that being said, Crush had broken a promise he had given to Meta. As much as I like him and frankly see the whole permission-granting thing unreasonable, I see broken trust as a red flag even if I'm not the victim, plus I don't want a relationship that is built on the cemetery of another one. I told him I don't want to keep seeing him anymore. I'm sad, disappointed, angry and bawling my eyes out.

I'll probably distract myself by writing some TF2 tickles stuff again but will avoid too much shipping fluff for a while.

Are there any fics where Stiles, Peter Hale, Deucalion, and Chris Argent are all in a Polyamorous relationship together? And neither Deucalion nor Peter are bad guys?,..

And if not, would anyone be willing to write one? Because I would read it.