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Had a fellow employee at my internship casually mention his husband and it made me so happy! As I learn more about the world I'm forced to deal with the fact that homophobia exists outside of my control group too; they would say the world was evil because others accepted queer people. So when I see evidence that there is hope for me to live my life as myself, I feel better. I start to beleive that I have a future here.
I'm a woman only in an occupational sense. Like a class in a video game. Sure I've studied the role and experienced the day to day, but it's not what I am as a person. I'm just a little guy. A dude perhaps. I don't understand why everyone is so insistent on making this random accumulation of expectations part of their very essence.
It's so funny to me that my parents will unironically be weirded out when I'm feminine or say stuff like, "Sometimes you feel more like my son." and yet are homophobic and transphobic. So you admit I'm naturally like this without complaint (mostly) but if I find a word to describe this feeling suddenly I need to be cured. Its like:
My parents: wow it's like your not a boy or a girl
Me: I'm agender
My parents: đ¤Ź
Me: "I never showed signs of being nonbinary as a child"
Me as a child: *is obsessed with skorts*
I can not explain how validating it is to see other nonbinary lesbians with religous trauma on here. Especially ex jw or ex cult ones. After realizing I was in a cult I thought, "There is so much crazy in my life. Will anyone understand my hyper specific experiences?" Apparently the answer is yes and it feels amazing.
NB đ Does đ Not đ Mean đ Woman đ Lite
to any nonbinary people reading this, never forget:
you can collect SOUL by striking enemies. once enough SOUL is collected, you can hold B to focus SOUL and regain health.
reblog if youâre a safe place for:
lesbian
gay
bisexual
transgender
queer
pansexual
demisexual
ace
hopeless romantics
cis-men
cis-women
non binary folks
the whole spectrum etcâŚ
follow everyone who reblogs ;)
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since the old version of this post was flagged for âadult contentââŚ
reblog this post if your account is a trans safe space or owned by a trans person!
along with that, reblog if your account is a non-binary spectrum safe space or owned by someone on the enby spectrum!
Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.
If my mutuals canât rb this then we canât be mutuals
fun facts about sharks
old-ish collector pride Nonbinary fanart
Also I canât find out if itâs canon that heâs Nonbinary so please let me know If u know :)
GAY
What is the destructive mischief made by nonbinary people called?
THEYhem
Amen OP đđť
Trying to prove a point to my transphobic parents
Reblog if trans men are REAL, VALID AND HANDSOME MEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
Reblog if trans women are REAL, VALID, AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, NO MATTER HOW THEY CHOOSE TO PASS
And finally, because it's a part of my argument for this point, and also because they are,
Reblog if nonbinary and genderqueer people in general, are REAL, VALID, AND GORGEOUS PEOPLE, NO MATTER HOW THEY PASS
Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.
If my mutuals canât rb this then we canât be mutuals
A kid at my job yesterday: are you a boy or a girl? đ¤¨
Me: idk. You pick.
Him: uh, a boy. Because you have short hair and wear that jacket all the time.
Me: cool.
Happy pride month everyone.
I'm fairly new to rebloging so I hope it's okay I'm adding to your post.
I just wanna share my experience with top surgery and having doubts before hand:
I started working towards getting top surgery when I was around 18 and because I was still in school and live (plus the fact this shit just tends to take forever) I only slowly got everything together for the surgery.
That meant I started the process 4 years before my actual surgery date. When I started I was fairly sure but the closer I got to the surgery the more doubts started to occupy my brain. I had a lot of therapy in the meantime and started liking myself more, which is good. However it unfortunately had the negative side effect of a part of me using this as an argument against top surgery. Because if I can learn to like myself I can learn to be okay with my boobs right?
I still don't think that's wrong, I think that yes I could have learned to be okay, be neutral towards my boobs instead of the major dislike that fueled my decision 4 years prior to walk down this path.
However despite that argument I decided to stick with my decision and get top surgery. And let me tell you: I'm so glad I did.
Because after nearly 8 months I can say with no doubt it was the right decision for me. It was the right decision not because I couldn't have accepted my boobs at some point but because without them I'm happy in a way I didn't know I could be with my body.
I look in the mirror and I get this happy giddy feeling in my stomach of seeing myself in a normal ass T-shirt but flat. I am overjoyed at dressing up fancy because it means I get to wear all the cool dress shirts I aquired over the years that finally look exactly how I also wanted them to look like.
Even my friends and family told me that the way I look makes more sense kinda. Like I look more like myself than before. Which yeah I do because I didn't feel comfortable with my boobs but also because even if I would have been alright with them I would never felt as enthusiastic about them as I do about my flat chest!
Having had top surgery made me happy and feel home in my body in a way that I didn't fully grasp beforehand. And I am so happy I stuck with my decision and didn't let the doubts get to me ^^
the good news is this *probably* wonât actually push back my timeline for top surgery, but I still let myself have a little tantrum about it because we respect all feelings in this house
Happy World Coming Out Day! As usual, my workaround for vulnerable, personal conversations is "I'll just make a comic about it and give it to everyone all at once," would recommend đ
YES!!!! So much this!!!
I want to add some of my thoughts because I can't just scroll passed this without adding my opinion to the pot (for better or worse, tho I do hope for the better but if for worse I would like to know inhow and how I can improve myself)
First off I agree 100% that there should be more representation of different nonbinary people and experiences!!!!! Yes it's nice to already be represented but I do plan on keep fighting for representation till everyone feels seen and represented! Having representation of other nonbinary people that aren't white, able bodied or skinny doesn't mean all the representation for us white, able bodied, skinny people disappears! We and people like us can and will still find a lot of representation and a variety of people to look up to and be inspired by. However some people do not have this option yet! People might not even realize they are part of our community because our representation is so limited to these categories (white, able-bodied, skinny, often also afab and androgynous presenting) that they might assume they can't be part of our community since they don't fit into these categories.
Let's have any and all kind of nonbinary be widely represented so that anyone who questions their gender can come to our community and find themselves and recognize themselves in someone.
Another thing I'd like to add that is only partially related is, that I want people to know that not judging or putting people into male and female categories is hard. We are trained from an early age by our society that these are two very big and important categories that we are told we should distinguish people with. This is harmful in all sort of ways but that ain't the point. I think we already know that.
Something you might not know or need another reassurance with is that it is okay if you sometimes slip up and put people in a male/female box. I'm nonbinary and try to daily challenge my own view on gender but even I might see someone in the streets and "assign" them a gender or try to figure out if they were born afab or amab. But by reminding myself that it doesn't matter and that it's not really important to me what a strangers gender is who I pass on the streets I slowly teach myself to unlearn this hurtful way I was taught by living in a western country.
What I'm trying to say is that it's okay to sometimes slip up, if you but in the effort of seeing how this taught in thing of gendering strangers is harmful, not only to nonbinary people but it can be especially harmful to our community.
So please the next time you judge a person take a step back and ask yourself if it is really relevant to your live in that moment to know what genitalia this person might have.
You shouldnât be treating nb people like the secret sexy 3rd gender. Nb people donât look like a mash of male and female, theyâre not sexy androgynous twinks
My uterus is kinda tilted in the other direction which makes it basically impossible for me to use tampons even of the smallest size because it just hurts too much and doesn't position well. So I'm definitely all for menstrual products being more advocated!
Especially in a gender neutral way!!!
Me being Nonbinary AND menstruating will probably not change in my life and that is okay! I am not any less Nonbinary!
also i literally do not care whether you prefer pads or tampons but the fact that in almost every situation where free period supplies are available, theyâre tampons, and this is just assumed to be fine (or people like campaigning for âfree tamponsâ rather than âfree menstrual productsâ) upsets me bc there are a lot of people who use pads who cannot use tampons and i donât understand why tampons are considered not just the default but the only option worth mentioning
So I wanted to have the Nonbinary flag as my hair and since I am crazy like that I thought it through with my girlfriend (how we should arrange the colors, my original plan was to do it with horizontal lines) and then just let my sister do her work!
We had to do it over the corse of two days since on day one we bleached, cut and dyed the purple, yellow and white (color correction) parts!
Then on the next day I bought some more bleach and we bleached the white a third time (rip my hair) and dyed the black.
I love it so much! And even though people might not recognize it (someone thought I was a huge basketball fan XD) it is great to wear a part of my identity on my head!
i think iâm nonbinary or something
