Men Are The Problem - Blog Posts

Not all men.But always a man

When you tell a man that he was being rude and you say to him “you didn’t have to yell at me” or something to that effect and he responds with “That wasn’t me yelling. Me yelling is much worse than that/You don’t wanna see me actually yelling/I can be much louder and scarier if I wanted to.”

Like… congratulations?? Are you bragging about that?? Is this supposed to make me feel better???

Fucking THANK YOU.

Also, pretty sure filmed rape is objectively worse than whatever the hell kinda "misandrist" things women are saying on those subreddits anyways.

Genuinely how is that even comparable in that specific instance either?

This is a (presumably man's) response to my post about violent misogynist porn subreddits.

I will care about "misandry" when men are dying en masse from gender-based violence.

I'll care when men are dying from rape.

I'll care when men are having their bodily autonomy and reproductive rights taken away.

I'll care when men are denied access to education on the basis of their sex.

I'll care when men are being paid disproportionately less than women.

I'll care when men are an oppressed class, minority, or otherwise vulnerable group anywhere on earth.

But none of these things are happening anywhere. There's a billion more things that solely or disproportionately effect women, because the world favours men and I'd be here all day naming them. You're not owed that effort.