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I Feel Like If I Ever Get A Short Haicut I Would Be More Comfortable Dressing More Feminine When I Never Was In My Life - Blog Posts

1 year ago

Oh How much I love this post , it's literally my favorite post on tumblr, I take it for reference every time I try to explain how I feel . I've probably read it 10 times by now

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.


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