just spent 45 mins watching woozi edits i should sleep its 4amđŞ
*sighs really loudly*
ăă. . . stop putting pressure on shifting and loa ๨ŕ§Â iâm begging. hands and knees. nicole-kidman-in-babygirl-level pathetic. all work and no play makes jack a dull boy. all pressure and no silliness makes you a shifting chokehold artist. not cute. not camp. so why are you treating shifting like some corporate ladder youâve got to climb in one go? why are you looking at loa like itâs a performance review waiting to tank?Â
shifting is supposed to be fun!!!!!!!!! itâs supposed to feel like giggling at 3 am about how youâre gonna waltz into some alternate reality and seduce a fictional character. itâs supposed to be the kind of ridiculous that makes you laugh out loud because, youâre trying to script what your hair smells like in another world. thatâs the magic. itâs light. itâs playful. itâs camp as hell. youâre allowed to have fun, to mess around, to let it all feel easy. you donât have to wake up every day and white-knuckle your affirmations like itâs a legal deposition. shifting is meant to be yours. dreamy, light, free!!!! like a little skip in the clouds. not something that makes your stomach knot.
when youâre treating shifting like some corporate KPI or the olympics of manifestation, youâre missing the point. stop squeezing so tight. youâre not building a seven-figure empire; youâre daydreaming with a purpose. stop choking it. breathe. unclench. shifting isnât the SATs. there are no bonus points for being the most serious or stressed about it.
you wanna know what works? what really works?????? not taking it so seriously. take the pressure off. thereâs power in absurdity, in letting yourself be a little silly. lean into the fun. play around with the idea of it. laugh at yourself. go outside, sit under a tree, eat something sweet, let your brain daydream for the hell of it. shifting works better when youâre not treating it like an unpaid internship. loosen your grip. loosen your mind. loosen you. shifting is not your boss. loa is not your boss. youâre in charge here. and frankly, if youâre not spilling a drink while scribbling in your journal or dancing to some unhinged playlist about your dr, youâre doing it wrong.
loosen up. let it be fun. you are not shifting wrong because you laughed too much or didnât meditate for 45 minutes in lotus position. joy is an amplifier. camp is an amplifier. being a little ridiculous IS AN amplifier!!!!!!!!
and hereâs the tipsy genius bit iâll drop, margarita in hand BECAUSE I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND THIS!!!!!! shifting isnât about proving anything to anyone, including yourself. itâs about creating magic, and magic thrives on curiosity, silliness, and the occasional over-the-top flair. so get out there and be a little unhinged about it. script something stupid. throw glitter on your vision board. vibe with it. donât choke it out. youâre doing great. keep going, but for godâs sake, keep it silly.
youâre already everything you need to be. youâre already on your way. just let it be fun. before you know it, you'll be having fun in your dr too.
had a dream i was dating TOP from bigbang...am i supposed to know what that means...
nobody understands the yearning iâm experiencing for this man I actually want to claw off my skin, manifesting I shift tonight đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸đŻď¸
if you've ever interacted with any of my posts theres a 99% chance I've stalked your account
it's okay if you missed doing your daily affirmations, which you didn't need anyway. it's okay if you diverted your attention away from your desires for a while, it's not gonna prevent your manifestations. it's alright if you cried because you don't see anything reflecting in the 3D and later felt bad about it, you'll still get your desires if you want them.
it's all part of this reality to feel bad, to cry, to get mad. not everyone in this community can feel happy and cheerful all the time while manifesting. and it's okay. everyone is going to want to cry. you are allowed to cry. you'll still get your desires, it'll still show up in the 3D no matter what.
don't sacrifice one thing for the other. there are no sacrifices made when you manifest. don't hold back, it's only healthy to let out your feelings than bottling it up. crash out if you want, and trust me whatever it is that you want, will show up.
just assume you have so and so and it will inevitably manifest, unless you decide you don't need it anymore. remember, nothing in between will matter.
you're giving yourself your best life, no inconveniences. you don't have to make yourself uncomfortable just for the sake of that. if you're giving yourself your perfect life, start by acknowledging your feelings and letting them be âĄ
How do you get over the fear of never shifting
how to get over the fear of never shifting?
right, so youâre afraid youâll never shift. youâre staring down the barrel of an eternal non-event, the metaphysical equivalent of a dinner party where the host never shows and youâre left nursing a warm gin and wondering why you ever put on shoes. the fear, then, is not just about shifting. itâs about stagnation, about the existential itch that nothing will ever happen to you, that you are, in the grand scheme of things, a closed-loop system with no exit ramp. itâs about the dread of being one of those people who say they want to do things and then never do them, like men who buy poetry books and never turn past the preface.
letâs establish something !!! this isnât a you problem. this is an everyone problem. but listen. listen. that doesnât mean nothing is happening. the want itself is movement. the yearning is proof of life.
but fear can be embarrassing. the fear is what stops you from talking about it in public. the fear is what makes you try to force it, and forcing it never works. this is a truth universally acknowledged, like how the people who tell you to âjust relaxâ are always the ones who never have to try at anything.
so, how do you get over it? you donât. not in the way youâre thinking.
you donât kill it, or banish it. what you do is you turn the volume down. you remind yourself that shifting is not a limited resource, it is not an exclusive club. you reframe it, because fear, at its core, is a trick of perspective. if you treat shifting like a test youâre doomed to fail, then congratulations, you have built yourself a failure machine. if you treat it like a game, like a book you can open and step into at will, then suddenly it becomes something else entirely, something less cruel, less elusive. something possible.
and listen, i could do the whole inspirational speech thing, the "trust the process," "it happens when you least expect it," "insert comforting platitude here. you can do it, you're always doing it, bla bla bla." but thatâs not what you need. what you need is this: shifting is a skill. sort of. itâs not a mystery, not some divine lottery where the lucky few get golden tickets to willy wonka's chocolate factory and the rest of us are left behind in the cold. itâs a skill, which means it can be developed, honed, mastered. and if you can accept that, then suddenly, the fear loses its fangs. it becomes background noise, static on the radio. it becomes something you can live with, something you can drown out with the sheer audacity of your wanting.
so, the next time the fear comes knocking, let it in. let it sit at your table. but do not let it drive. do not let it make the rules. because the fear, when you really break it down, is just this: a refusal to believe in your own capacity for transformation. and if thereâs one thing i know about you, itâs that youâve never been one to stay the same.
missing my bsf hoursđ
I think my favourite piece of shifting advise I've gotten so far, was to stop being here.
Stop being in this reality just because that's what you see in the 3D. If you want to see the change, BE the change. Go COLD TURKEY on the current reality. Starve the current reality of your attention.
Anytime you see and react to something in this reality, just remind yourself "oh wait, I am already in my desired reality." REMEBER WHO YOU ARE in your desired reality and in that embodiment, REMIND YOURSELF you are in your desired reality.
Like "Oh wait, I almost forgot I'm literally in my dr" or "Oh yeah, I almost forgot I've already shifted" because you literally have. Anytime you think about your dr, take that chance to remember yourself as your drself and remind yourself "Ah yes I'm already in my dr" "I'm literally in my desired reality right now". Because what you are doing right, there is the entire shifting process.
You are shifting your awareness of your current reality to your desired one, remembering who you are in your dr (embodying your drself) and reminding yourself you are in your dr.
You have become the change, so therefore the 3D will show the change.
hes so beautiful i need to DEVOUR him
brb, gotta read my favourite book (the dr reading i got from shay)