missing my bsf hoursđ
really donât rhink ppl understand the chokehold woozi in glasses has on me
there are tears in my ehyes
had a dream abt the walking dead which reminded me exactly why i dont shift there
The Shiftblr Anti-Terf Blocklist
After expanding the original post to be far longer than intended (courtesy of me forgetting a break), I received some assistance from the ever so wonderful @sheeezu whom took time out to dig around in the trash, a.k.a @/CuttingCherub's follower list. Every @ you see here is pro-TERF, and that is unacceptable in our community. This is a safe space for ALL, except those who wish harm upon people solely asking to exist in peace. You are not welcome here.
On a lighter note, I began donating $5 to trans charities for each terf comment/ask I saw, in the name of the account spreading the hate. So far, the terfs of Shiftblr have raised $60 USD for Trans Lifeline! đ¤ So! Either they get the picture and go back into hiding, or they continue to help trans people in the way that arguably matters most in this world. So please, don't be afraid to reach out if you've been getting harassed by these scumbags. I highly encourage you to share any accounts you have encountered in the replies. Now that there's a condensed list, without the showcase of SS taking up space, it'll be much more convenient to add onto.
Remember, trans friends: You are valid, you are valuable and you are loved. đ
setting intention but didnât shift⌠why?
often youâll find with shifters that setting an intention doesnât lead to immediate results, and many get confused by this because itâs paraded around that âintention is keyâ. and I do agree with this, so why does intention work sometimes and not others?
first off, you didnât fail to set intention properly because you didnât shift. in my experience, intention isnât always a one- time thing, especially if itâs your first time doing something. in my experience, intention grows the more confident and consistent you are.
iâve talked about this on my tiktok in 2022, but the plateau of latent potential applies to many shifters. and if you donât know what it means, the plateau of latent potential is that space between effort and visible resultsâ where youâre building momentum, even if you donât see progress yet.
think of it like ice slowly warming up from below freezing to 32°F. for a while, nothing seems to change⌠until it hits that tipping point and finally melts.
letâs use people as an exampleâ you can intend to lift a 50lb weight, but if youâve never done that before, your arm will be sore. it takes consistent effort to build the strength to lift it until one day, youâre no longer sore.
the same applies to shifting. intention builds over time, and every time you set it, youâre laying the foundation to break through that plateau.
so if you donât shift right away, donât doubt your intention. thereâs nothing wrong with how youâre intending!! focus on trusting it and understand each time you attempt, youâre strengthening your intention because persistence is intention tooâŚ
your tipping point is coming. just keep intending.
Introduction kinda
Little Disclaimer: Take everything I do or say with a grain of salt as not everything works for everyone and also this is just to share my personal journey to see if it resonates with anyone else âĄ
So my shifting journey started back in 2020 from shiftok which really saturated my mind with limitations and the need to be doing a hundred steps to shift to my desired reality. I did take a break last year and only started getting back into shifting like 6 months ago.
For me, a part of me didnt know how to restart my journey and let go of all the beliefs I had because I was convinced that it required a lot of effort to undo. But I've learnt over time that changing my mindset is simple.
Everydoing we do is changing states, whether we are changing to get something physical like money and cars ect or something mental like a new mindset around something like confidence and self esteem.
Therefore, changing my mindset for me was as simple as deciding that I dont need to be in starfish position to shift and I dont need to count to 100 everytime. The most important part is persisting in it and for me personally I don't go out of my way to persist. I let it be natural and simply remind myself if any old beliefs are brought to mind.
I haven't reached my desired reality yet but I do think I'll be there soon in the 3d.
I dont interact with shiftok much anymore for me personally its a lot of ambiguous statements and requires more thinking and explanation so I tend to look into other manifesters and law of assumption blogs/ videos ect.
~Happy shifting ~
had a dream i was dating TOP from bigbang...am i supposed to know what that means...
so hereâs why i personally didn't like *and* left shifttok. the thing is. itâs not that itâs inherently bad, itâs just⌠sort of missing the point. like, wasnât the whole goal to shift? to get out, to go somewhere else, to slip through the cracks of reality like a goddamn pro? but somewhere along the way, it turned into a glorified pinterest board. edits on edits on edits. wattpad drabbles disguised as scripts. playlists that are less about actually shifting and more about curating an aesthetic, a moodboard, a vibe. and suddenly, youâre not shifting, youâre just making content about shifting.
like, i get it. romanticising your dr is half the fun. i did and still do it myself !! who doesnât want to bask in the idea of their perfect world? but when that becomes the main event, when it overtakes the actual act of shifting, what are we even doing here? itâs like planning a trip, making all the itineraries, buying cute outfits, but then never getting on the plane. just sitting in your room, looking at your suitcase, rewatching your own tiktoks about how fun the trip is gonna be. thatâs what shifttok became. this endless loop of people hyping up their drs but not actually going to them.
and maybe thatâs the problem. because if you spend too much time making your dr look good instead of actually experiencing it, you start treating it like fiction. like something separate from you, instead of something youâre literally living. people started making edits of their drs like they were making fandom edits of a tv show. like, is this a real place youâre shifting to or is it just your latest hyperfixation? be honest. you spend so much time cooped up on video star or capcut and suddenly you don't remember the last time you affirmed or even thought about shifting.
and iâm not saying you canât have fun with it. obviously, dream up the most insane, gorgeous, cinematic dr possible. but at some point, you have to ask yourself: am i actually trying to shift? or am i just roleplaying the idea of shifting? because shifttok is great at making shifting look cool. but the second you start seeing your dr as something to be consumed rather than something to be lived, youâve already lost the plot.
so yeah. i left, and as soon as i did, i started actually shifting. because i actually wanted to do it. not just make a trailer for a movie iâm never gonna watch. does this make sense?????
Found this on tiktok !!