Would You Agree That You Should Follow Your Heart And That What Makes You Feel Good Is Always Right For

Unzählbar noch die Gleise

unsäglich das Verlangen

ungleich ist jede Reise

und doch so ähnlich; 

auf ihre Art und Weise.

by Weltenasche.

Das sind wunderbare Texte! Was inspiriert Dich am meisten?

Meine Feder wird geführt von all den Gefühlen, denen ich auf emotionaler Ebene keinen Platz machen kann.

Die Liebe möchte, dass ich sie nenne, aber nie konnte sie die Muse sein, die Trauer für mich war und ist; Es ist also die Trauer, die ich an ihrer Stelle nennen muss.

>then by all means go for it< so you want me to eat meat? Did I get that right? Just wanting to make sure ;)

I stopped getting upset about things that I can't change a long time ago. This includes, for example, that many people continue to consume huge amounts of meat and thus support a seemingly endless suffering or some idiotic edgelord trying to trigger me on the internet.

If I can stop animal suffering directly, then I will do so. But in your case we probably won't even live in the same country, so any effort would be in vain.

Is that your cat in the black and white photo? Soooo adorable 😍 By the way you have beautiful hands .. hope it does not sound weird but would you consider posting a picture of them? 😁🤭

No, it's not my cat, but I'll be happy to pass along your compliment to her. Thank you (even though I don't really understand what is supposed to be beautiful about them), I think I can do that.

Do you only write poetry or other things as well? What about erotic writings? Can you please share that?

I also write other things besides poetry, and I am no stranger to erotic writings. But I still have to deny your request, because there are reasons why I do not share these writings publicly.

No offense dude but you are so stupid and act so smart all the time. We're both going to die someday while I lived and enjoyed my life to the fullest without compromise and you struggled through workouts and an optimized diet every day. So tell me: what do you really get out of all this smartass?

A bigger coffin, I assume.

Can i send you nudes?🔥

If you want to know if you are physically able to do that, then I suppose the answer to that question is "yes." If - and I think this is more likely - your question is whether it is okay for me or if I would be happy about it, then I have to answer this with a "no".

I have never understood the sole attraction to a body, when it is the personality and the many small characteristics that make a person (and thus the body) interesting in the first place.

Was wünscht du dir?

Grundlegend mehr Zeit. Nicht im Sinne, dass ich dem Unausweichlichem ausweichen möchte und diesem Gedanken folgend ewig leben möchte; mehr im Sinne von Zeit, die ich für mich und die von mir bevorzugten Dinge nutzen kann. Kalligraphie zum Beispiel, denn diese kommt häufig zu kurz, wenn andere weltliche Verpflichtungen Überhand nehmen.

Hast du mal den mbti gemacht? Welcher Persönlichkeitstyp bist du?

Einige meiner Bekannten hatten mich mal dazu gebracht, derartige Tests durchzuführen, auch wenn ich mich selbst als Kritiker derartiger Tests verstehe. In diesem Fall nicht nur am Tests selbst, da ich hier die Annahme der Konzeptualisierung nicht unterstützen kann, aber auch daran, dass Persönlichkeitstests im Allgemeinen stark von der Stimmung des Individuums abhängen und zudem immer eine Diskrepanz zwischen Selbst- und Fremdwahrnehmung besteht; Und das sind nur die oberflächlichsten Kritikpunkte, die mir gerade einfallen, ohne weiter auf die Materie einzugehen.

Ungeachtet dessen: Ich bin laut Test ein ISTJ-A.

What do you think about toxic masculinity? What is your own idea of masculinity?

I think the term toxic masculinity is a broad one, which unfortunately is increasingly degenerating into a buzzword. And I say "unfortunately" because the term describes important and existing problems that still prevail in the minds of many people and is responsible for a not insignificant amount of suffering on the part of individuals and their environment.

That being said, I don't think I can really add much to this rather general question, as more specific questions or deeper exchanges are needed at this point.

In order to shed light on my own image of masculinity, it is important to understand that it is divided into two different images. On the one hand, I have the idea that a man does not have to have specific characteristics (other than the biological characteristics of a man, if we are in a biological context) to be a man; a rather rational idea of masculinity that I apply to other people. The other idea is the one I apply to myself, which is less infused with rationality and more influenced by bad role models and years of negative influence during developmentally critical periods of my life; I recognize many of the negative traits of this idea in myself and am aware of their negativity as well, but that doesn't change how I feel about them - There is a difference in understanding on a rational level that something is harmful and actually internalizing that as a feeling within yourself.

Being aware of these problems, I reflected on them and found ways not to make them the problems of others for the most part and to limit negative consequences solely to myself. Is that healthy? Certainly not, but it is better than including others in this negative cycle that I am unfortunate enough to be a part of.

Maybe I will be able to get rid of this idea someday, maybe I never will be able to; after all, it didn't form over night and it won't disappear over night.