Hey mother nature i love you and shit but like….what the fuck my good bitch
If my mutuals can’t rb this then we can’t be mutuals
1. self-soothing
comforting yourself through the 5 senses
Touch: stuffed animals, stress balls, taking a bath, a soft blanket
Hear: music, audio book, guided relaxation
See: snow globe, glitter, calming images, art, anything that pleases you visually
Taste: tea, mints, gum
Smell: lotion, candles, incense
2. distraction
removing your focus from the stressor for a period of time
puzzles, art, crafting, reading, movies, gaming, exercise, being social
3. opposite action
doing the opposite of the impulse that aligns with a positive emotion
affirmations, inspiration, lighthearted and encouraging focus
4. emotional awareness
identifying and constructively expressing what you’re feeling
journaling, listing emotions, using a emotional identification chart, drawing, therapy
5. mindfulness
centering and anchoring yourself to the present moment
meditation, guided relaxation, yoga, breathing exercises, candle gazing, going for a walk
6. ask for help
this is important to do when you feel like your coping skills are not enough or they are too negative and detrimental
therapy is ideal for helping a person create a healthy coping strategy and incorporate it into their life
*a coping skill is considered healthy if it helps you to deal with stress more positively, does not hinder your progress, and isn’t harmful physically or mentally. A coping skill can become negative when it is used to completely avoid dealing with the stressor.
The satisfying moment when you realise that both male and female leads got to kill the villain in The King: Eternal Monarch drama.
😄LET'S JUST CALL HIM MATH or THE HANDSOME ONE 💗
Did ya guess it?
Currently watching Weightlifting Fairy Kim bok joo kdrama and also reading the Fire keeper book.
Both of these are so soo good
Parabatai Symbols
Herondale + Carstairs
Herondale + Fairchild
Carstairs + Herondale
Wayland + Lightwood
Herondale + Lightwood
Carstairs + Blackthorn
Lovelace + Fairchild
Gio giving advice as a love wizard for Martino is the top best thing about him. I loved the entire scene. Everyone should have a friend like Gio in their life.
Indian, love shadowhunters, kdrama, bl, In multifandom.
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