If a transgender person asks you to deadname and misgender them in front of certain people. Misgender them and deadname them in front of those people. It doesn't matter how icky or gross it may feel, it doesn't matter you'd rather be honest. It doesn't matter if there's more of you there. Certain people aren't safe, and honesty IS NOT the best policy when honesty could put them at serious risk. It doesn't matter if there's a crowd, because when there isn't shit goes down.
Be an ally, do what they ask. Understand that the trans person knows more about their situation than you do, and this includes who's safe and who's not. Some one can be "trans friendly" to other people, but not to people they know or specific people. Do as the trans person asks, yes it's uncomfortable, but it's 10 times worse if the person we don't trust finds out. 100 times worse if they have access to us when you're not around.
Respect trans peoples safety. Misgender and deadname when asked.
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Thank you!!
i love you, trans guys who don't or can't pass. i love you if you can't grow facial or body hair, if your voice is high and you can't or won't lower it, if you refuse to cut your hair short, if you can't bind due to health reasons or just won't, if you can't afford HRT or surgeries, if you have softer rounder features, wide hips, big breasts or whatever else strangers can't seem to get past, i love you. i love you, the man you are, and the way you show the world what different men can and do look like. passing is not your rite into manhood, you are a man regardless of whether or not you ever pass or even try to.
via NYPost: Immigration and Customs Enforcement is preparing to launch a “big f–king operation” across sanctuary cities — including Chicago and New York — immediately after President-elect Donald Trump’s inauguration, multiple sources told The Post.
Starting Jan. 21, multi-day “ground operations” will be launched across cities that have served as safe havens for migrants because the local authorities do not cooperate with the federal government when it comes to immigration issues, sources said.
hey!! i have decided to start crowdfunding for top surgery while i can. i am a transmasc nonbinary guy from texas and a chronically broke college student, and i would like to get top surgery as soon as possible, preferably before my 23rd or 24th birthdays. top surgery would benefit me physically as binding is unsafe for me a lot of the time and has caused damage to my rib cage after almost 8 years of binding, as well as benefit me mentally and emotionally.
please share and donate if you’re able to! it’s a lot of money unfortunately but definitely will be worth it in the end!! https://gofund.me/e16c79d0
Can we boost this one until it reaches the Oklahoma City Tumblrites? This seems like something this website could rally and solve. Help save all this genetic information? I messaged them to offer to consult with the entymology lab near mine to see if they could store the bugs with us, but they are VERY far away and would have to drive long distance to us.
hello my friends 💖 it's 3 DAYS until my top surgery consultation!!!!
Im only a few hundred dollars behind goal (<$800), so please donate to my gfm if you can!!! I'm so so so close to my surgery being completely fully funded!
Gfm is here
cshapp: $ pidgefqhl
Love love love love to everyone who has been sharing and reaching out 💖 I'm sending each of you a tiddy pic the night before my surgery and I have the biggest appreciation for you 🙏 thank you immensely and sincerely 💖
To every aspec: I am proud of you.
To aspecs who are out and loud about your aspec identities: I am proud of you. Keep on being true to yourself. You inspire us all.
To aspecs who can’t or don’t want to come out yet: I am proud of you. Take all the time you need. We are waiting with open arms to welcome you when you are ready.
To aspecs who don’t ever plan to come out: I am proud of you. To put your safety and comfort first is an act of pride in and of itself. You don’t need anyone’s approval but your own.
To aspecs who love being aspec: I am proud of you. Your joy is revolutionary.
To aspecs who don’t love being aspec: I am proud of you. It’s hard, but you keep going anyway.
To people who aren’t sure where they fall on the a-spectrums, or if they do at all: I am proud of you. It takes courage to find answers, and you are doing so well.
To the aspec reading this right now: I am proud of you. Wherever you are in your journey. I hope you are proud of yourself too because honestly? You are amazing. You make our community better by being in it. Thank you.
My dear lgbt+ kids,
Did you know „conversion therapy“ is still not banned in most European countries?
Conversion therapy describes cruel, abusive attempts to force someone to change their sexual orientation or gender identity. It has been proven to not only not work but also cause lasting damage and trauma and greatly increase suicide risks. The United Nations has qualified it as what it is: torture.
This official petition is calling on the European Commission to do three important things:
Ban conversion practices across the EU – by proposing a new law or strengthening existing ones.
Protect victims – by updating victim rights laws so survivors get the support they deserve.
Make sure all EU countries act – either by introducing a ban or improving weak laws.
SIGN THE PETITION HERE
They need 1 million signatures from EU citizens by tomorrow (May 17, 2025) to make the EU act. This is not just a symbolic number! If they reach that number, the European Commission is legally required to respond and consider turning it into law.
At the time of writing this, they have reached 915,945 signatures.
If you’re from Europe, please consider signing (it’s easy and safe). If you’re not from Europe, please consider sharing!
With all my love,
Your Tumblr Dad
Original post: @strangewonderfulcreature
Petition: “We, the undersigned, residents of Canada, call upon the House of Commons to extend to transgender and nonbinary people the right to claim asylum in Canada by reason of eliminationist laws in their home countries, whatever country that may be.”
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*If this has already been posted on tumblr let me know and I’ll reblog the original and delete this post