The sucky thing about being plural and trans is that not everyone inside has figured out my pronouns and some still unintentionally default to feminine terms and she/her pronouns for me and some of the other guys, which just really sucks. I know one or two headmates use she/her pronouns but boy do I want the one caretaker I don’t know well to stop calling me a girl when comforting me :((
being a closeted plural is like
catching myself typing with plural pronouns with people im not out to yet
i accidentally used a headmate's pk proxy in a server, mistaking it for a different server — and i had to thank the gods that the server did not have pk
oh no there's a DID system in a mutual server i hope they're chill with non-disordered systems (not like we can do much if they're not chill)
"is it possible to be casually plural?"
cant tell anyone cant tell anyone aaaa
get the Itch to tell this person. hesitates for 5 business days. ends up not telling them
the imposter syndrome
when old friends contact us and goes "how've you been?" and i only say that it's been "kind of wild" and i do not elaborate
will never ever tell anyone irl
the imposter syndrome 2: electric boogaloo
the fear of my friends somehow stumbling across our sysblog (why would they even tread plural spaces?? in tumblr, no less??) (idk but im scared)
local forest creature here
i find myself longing for cuddles despite being 7-10 feet tall and
scary
decoration i found at a thrift store
[ID: a simple black decoration with white text that reads: If you see me talking to myself, just move along... We're having a team meeting. / end ID]
I feel like its ok to only share the fun side of ur system if thats what u all comfortable with.
Seriously, not everyone wants to show and share their negative side system stuff with others. Us as an example, we don’t even share our name or anything in here bc its dangerous for us. Not to mention sharing the things we been personal gone through, which may use to harm us later.
But its also very brave and nice that some people willing to share they own personal experience to others! Thats very cool!!! <3
THE PLURAL COMMUNITY NEEDS TO FIGURE OUT THAT PRYING ABOUT PEOPLES TRAUMA MAKES YOU A FUCKING BITCH. PEOPLE LOVE TO GET UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL. FUCKING TRY IT, I BITE
Not super active because plural communities intimidate me (the host, Jay) but trying to be more open so I don’t suppress things Again. No clue how my system formed, but I’m definitely endo supportive.
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