My Toxic Trait Is I Think Apollo Should Have More Crazy Backstories. Make Him Suffer.

Nooo mutual don’t put that “men fall down the alt-right pipeline bc women/feminists are too mean” post on my dash nooo mutual don’t try to say women need to be nicer when dealing with misogynistic men nooo mutual nooo

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Gray fox kin stimboard with related stims!

Requested by; @shrym22

Hope this works! Wasn't sure what sorta themes to go with, so I just sorta added some foresty stuff to it! Let me know if you'd like any changes :D

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Recognizing that the "Unnecessary feelings" comment isn't about gay thoughts makes wrightworth better in my honest opinion.

"Seeing you gives me an extreme carnal reaction and I want to kiss you stupid"? WRONG. "Your being here makes me remember a time when I was truly happy. Your presence forces me to acknowledge the icy waters I am submerged in. Your fires make me realize how cold I am, and I'm too scared of reaching out. I'm scared that the moment I reach out, I will douse your flames because I am colder than the darkest parts of this trench I find myself in and I don't think your fire can handle it.

Your warm smile makes me realize how sad I truly am. I look into your bright eyes and feel the dark bags under mine sag. I am tired and I so badly want to rest my head, if only for a moment, on your shoulder, my oldest friend. My dearest friend. My only friend. I want nothing more than to cry in your arms, but my tears are so cold that I may snuff your embers when I wet your sleeves. You open your hands to me to take my burdens, but you don't understand how hefty it is. I will crush anyone under the weight of it, including you.

It would've been better had we not met, you are too earnest, too persistent, too kind for me. You will break yourself for anyone. I don't want to be the one you break yourself on. Because you are the only one who understood me.

Don't ever show your face in front of me again."

bell hooks mentioned going through a time in her life where she was severely depressed and suicidal and how the only way she got through it was through changing her environment: She surrounded her home with buddhas of all colors, Audre Lorde’s A Litany for Survival facing her as she wakes up, and filling the space she saw everyday with reinforcing objects and meaningful books. She asks herself each day, “What are you going to do today to resist domination?” I also really liked it when she said that in order to move from pain to power, it is crucial to engage in “an active rewriting of our lives.”

uploading my Snoopics here too <3

it kept getting reuploaded everywhere without credit so-

happy new year❄️

guy who wins at poker not by being stoic but by bursting into tears every time he looks at his cards, just full hysterical breakdown every round and you gotta peer through the void of theatre kid problems to figure it out

house martin gathering mud

(photos by m.geven)

Honestly I really admire your strong will. I tend to be a bit of a people pleaser, so to see someone defend their ideas so strongly is very inspirational. I also really like that you actually engage with canon and don’t just reaper the canon stuff like so much of the AA fandom tends to do, breath of fresh air.

I hope you have a great day/night

it is a service to your fellow humans to not be a people pleaser. the people around you want to know when you're uncomfortable. they want to know your boundaries so they can respect them. they want to know when they've upset you so they can treat you better. being a "people pleaser" might feel like a net good, but in reality all people pleasers do is make their friends Guess when they are upset/uncomfortable, and that is not a kind thing to do to anyone.

the people who react poorly to you having boundaries are not people you want in your life because that is the reddest of red flags and pretty baseline. there's no time like the present to start being kinder to the people around you, and a great way to do that is to make some noise when you're unhappy.

anyways i love viddy game! thanks for watching my videos!