Honestly I Really Admire Your Strong Will. I Tend To Be A Bit Of A People Pleaser, So To See Someone

Honestly I really admire your strong will. I tend to be a bit of a people pleaser, so to see someone defend their ideas so strongly is very inspirational. I also really like that you actually engage with canon and don’t just reaper the canon stuff like so much of the AA fandom tends to do, breath of fresh air.

I hope you have a great day/night

it is a service to your fellow humans to not be a people pleaser. the people around you want to know when you're uncomfortable. they want to know your boundaries so they can respect them. they want to know when they've upset you so they can treat you better. being a "people pleaser" might feel like a net good, but in reality all people pleasers do is make their friends Guess when they are upset/uncomfortable, and that is not a kind thing to do to anyone.

the people who react poorly to you having boundaries are not people you want in your life because that is the reddest of red flags and pretty baseline. there's no time like the present to start being kinder to the people around you, and a great way to do that is to make some noise when you're unhappy.

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