if no one else gets me I know gonegirl1996 gets me
advice:
- don’t care about strangers judging you
- wear what you want
- make daily goals
- listen to new music
- be excited about little things
- give compliments
- try new things that scare you
- be interested in what people say
- it’s ok to be “embarrassing” and goofy
- wake up earlier
- pain isn’t permanent
- remember the wonder you had as a child
- never listen to impulsivity when you’re sad or angry
- drink water and stretch very often
- keep your belongings tidy and make your bed
- smile when you’re looking in the mirror
- have an inner monologue that deflects negative thoughts
- journal often
- always try to say yes to spending time with people u love
Practice being calm. Like literally...if you want to feel powerful and in control, stay calm. If you really trust, then stay calm. Don’t lose your cool. Trust me. It’s enough that you are going through something, stop being a hype man to your unwanted situations. It’s not a big deal.
i love when men inconvenience themselves for me. extreme consideration remains the highest form of love
—A Swimmer’s Dream, Algernon Charles Swinburne
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